First of all, the marriage customs of the Hui people also need to propose marriage. The man wants to ask the matchmaker to propose to the woman. Now there are fewer people who specialize in matchmakers, so matchmakers are basically relatives of both men and women, and my uncle is the first consideration. When a man asks a matchmaker to propose marriage, he must bring a four-color ceremony to introduce the basic situation of the man to the woman. The woman will also let the matchmaker actually check the situation in the man's home, and the matchmakers of both sides will arrange to meet at the market or at the homes of relatives and friends. After that, the consent is a formal meeting, and the man should bring four-color gifts and meeting money. If the girl accepts the man's meeting money, it is equivalent to agreeing to the marriage.
Secondly, when ordering tea, the man's family should prepare all kinds of scented tea or high and medium-grade teas such as green tea and Longjing, which Hui people like to drink, and add some brown sugar, white sugar, longan meat, walnuts, raisins and red dates. , and wrapped into a pound of small bags, affixed with red paper as a wedding gift for relatives and friends. The man will also prepare some beautiful clothes for the woman, and the woman will also entertain relatives and friends.
Thirdly, in arranging flowers, the man should give the bride price to the woman, which is determined according to the man's economic conditions. Of course, both men and women should agree together, otherwise the unhappy marriage of the woman may fail. The man should also buy some cosmetics, daily necessities, clothes or fabrics for the four seasons, watches, bicycles, gold and silver jewelry, a sheep, 100 kg of rice and some sugar tea.
Finally, the marriage customs in Yinchuan are the style of marriage, so I won't explain them one by one here. If you are married to a Hui nationality, you must know clearly, so as not to make people laugh at the wrong behavior at the wedding.