A 70-year-old man, the youngest is 30 years old and the oldest is 40 years old, should be a husband and father. But there is such a group of gentlemen who are not only unmarried, but also single. Why don't they get married? What kind of life do these single men born in the 1970s live?
Why don’t 70-year-old people like to get married?
Not getting married, being forced or having resources is always a situation they choose due to their own circumstances, and it can also be regarded as a kind of pleasure for single men to comfort themselves.
Ten pains and ten joys of singles in the 1970s
1. There is too much pressure in life.
In modern society, the main pressure comes not only from work, but also from life. Facing the challenges of marriage is not as simple as making friends. A series of real problems such as houses and cars need to be solved. The pressure of these life is enough for men to choose to give up marriage.
2. Not enough money.
In addition to a house and a car, what is more important is having enough money to live. From the moment we are about to say goodbye to being single, we have to spend money to cultivate relationships. The preparations for marriage are basically accompanied by money. Life after marriage is naturally impossible without enough money.
3. Pick here and there, pick here and there.
Perhaps many men born in the 1970s have had many girlfriends, including those who live together. Then, when they face the sensitive word of marriage, they can't bear to bury themselves quickly, so they start to be picky and choose one after another. As a result, in the end, what you like does not suit others, and what others like does not suit you.
The ten hardships and ten joys of the singles in the 1970s
4. For the so-called study and career
I thought that there was no end to my learning and I was always in a state of learning. As a result, I went to college, then graduate school, and after graduate school I wanted to study for a Ph.D. I was already in my 30s at the time, and when I first started working, I was even more reluctant to mention marriage. I'm waiting for more options in the future.
5. Singles
Obviously they don’t want to get married, they like being single, they like freedom, they don’t like being bound by others, and they don’t need the constraints of life, especially married men, for sure. There is no unmarried freedom. Therefore, most of the bachelors born in the 1970s are selfish.