When young people get married, they always take time to visit their elders. Bring some gifts, visit parents, grandfathers, grandmothers and grandfathers, bring them the love of their loved ones, and enjoy family happiness with them.
In daily life, everyone has many friends. Being with like-minded friends can adjust the fatigue and troubles brought by daily work, enhance each other's feelings and expand the amount of information in this information age. Before visiting friends, you must make an appointment in advance, so as not to be turned away or become an uninvited guest, disrupting friends' daily arrangements. When you make an appointment, you should keep it on time. If you can't be on time, you should inform your friends in advance, because it is very impolite to stand up. Don't visit at the other party's dinner time, so as not to disturb others. It is best to visit in the afternoon of a holiday or after dinner on a working day, instead of choosing weekend nights. Visit at night, don't interfere with others' rest and other housework, so try to shorten the time.
In addition, when visiting a friend's house, you should also know some common sense:
Guests should pay attention to gfd, dress neatly, succinctly and generously, and dress in harmony with the season, environment and atmosphere. Knock gently before entering the door, don't break in. No matter how familiar you are, wait for the host to say hello before entering the door. Say hello when you meet elders and others. Don't just choose a place or sit on the bed. When you are a guest, you should behave prudently and appropriately. You should not break into other rooms without permission. In addition to reading books and periodicals on the desktop, it will be disgusting to just look through books, notes and letters in the bookcase. Don't comment and criticize the furnishings in the room too much, and don't touch them casually. Pay attention to discretion in conversation, avoid some taboo topics in the host's house, and avoid disputes. Even if the discussion on a certain issue reaches * * *, you should control it and don't shout loudly. In addition, we should master the time of conversation and don't just chat. People's time is precious. When you are a guest, you should greet other guests politely. If other guests have something urgent, they should take the initiative to leave. Generally speaking, the first guest leaves first to show respect for the later guests.
When entertaining guests, as hosts, we should try our best to be warm and considerate to our guests from beginning to end and make them feel at home.
For the guests who have made an appointment in advance, they should be prepared as much as possible, clean the room and prepare some refreshments and fruits to make the atmosphere relaxed and natural when chatting.
When guests visit, they should be warmly greeted as "Come in", "Sit down" and "Please make yourself at home". Introduce the guests to the rest of the family and give them a prominent position or an honorary position.
Don't be too polite to a good old friend, but prepare tea and candy to make him feel at home. This is a true friend.
For the guests on business trip, just prepare tea and cigarettes, because they have more important things to talk about, so don't worry about these details.
When inviting guests to stay for dinner, we should pay more attention to their habits, don't persuade them to drink more, and don't politely give them a lot of dishes, lest they refuse to eat because they don't like it, so everything should meet their needs.
When guests are at home, the following behaviors should be prohibited: cleaning the room, sweeping the floor, rummaging through the closet to find things, reprimanding children, and quarreling with family members.
If the guest stays too long, it is not easy to urge him directly. You can reduce the conversation and don't add water to the teacup as a hint.
When the guest is leaving, you can politely say, "If you are not busy, sit down for a while." After the guest stood up, the host stood up again, let the guest walk in front, sent it to the gate, and watched the guest walk away, but the host was gone before the guest left.
No matter the guest or the host, we should try our best to satisfy each other and leave each other behind.
2. Writing a composition about visiting elders 600 Respecting parents and elders is an important part of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Parents and elders, who have raised offspring and younger generations, naturally deserve filial piety from younger generations. Can a person who speaks ill of his parents and elders and behaves indecent become a patriotic and talented person? Celebrities and sages who come and go from ancient times to the present are mostly outstanding figures with both loyalty and filial piety. Please listen to the following two stories. One is the story of "Fang Guancheng travels thousands of miles to visit relatives".
During the Qianlong period of Qing Dynasty, Fang Guancheng, a native of Tongcheng, Anhui Province, was a famous dutiful son. The story that he traveled thousands of miles to visit relatives and friends was passed down as a beautiful story.
Both Fang Guancheng's grandfather and father were court officials. The literary inquisition in the Qing Dynasty implicated his grandfather and father because a friend wrote a book, and they were exiled to Heilongjiang for military service, and their property was confiscated. The young Fang Guancheng brothers had no choice but to stay in the temple.
In the temple, Fang Guancheng lived with tears and was ready for hardship, but what Fang Guancheng missed most was his grandfather and father. He summoned up his courage and asked the elders to allow them to visit their elders in the frontier. Considering their youth, the elders tried their best to dissuade them, even though they were filial, for fear that they would not survive. Fang Guancheng pleaded: "Grandpa and father are far away, and they are eager to see their relatives at home. If we can go, we will definitely give our parents some comfort, even if they suffer a little. Please allow us to begin. "
The Fang brothers' righteous act touched their elders, who sent them money and sent them to visit relatives with tears.
Along the way, they camped in the wind, waded through mountains and rivers, starved and helped each other, their clothes were ragged and their feet were covered with calluses. A few months later, they finally met their parents. After the four of them cried bitterly, grandpa and dad were happy for their filial offspring, and the family of four were intoxicated with family happiness.
The other is the story of "Feng Yuxiang bought meat to honor his father". General Feng Yuxiang is not only a famous patriotic general, but also a well-known dutiful son. Being a soldier in the old society was a hard job. Soldiers often don't get paid and shoot every five rows. Every shooting day, my father thinks he is young and weak, and always tries his best to scrape together some small money to buy a sesame seed cake for his son to satisfy his hunger. Xiao Yuxiang, who is sensible, saw that life at home was difficult, and his father hurt his leg again and needed to mend his body. But if you don't want the money, father will be angry. So he saved all the money his father gave him, and in a few days he put together the money he usually saved. He bought two catties of pork at the butcher's shop and asked for leave to go home and cook a pot of braised pork for his father. My father became suspicious immediately after seeing it, so he questioned the origin of this piece of meat. Feng Yuxiang knew his father's severity and had to tell the truth. Hearing this, the old father grabbed the sensible child and couldn't say a word. Tears fell down.
There are countless typical examples of filial piety to parents like this. Nowadays, many teenagers with noble sentiments are also good examples of filial piety to their parents and elders. This kind of kindness to honor the elders and give love has merged into a perfect and warm love movement in the world, playing a strong voice of the times.
3. Go with your parents to visit relatives and friends for 400 words. This semester is over. I showed my parents the evaluation handbook for middle school students, and they laughed happily. I am also very happy, because I have improved nine places compared with last semester. After that, I chatted with my parents about my study and life this semester. My parents not only care about my study life, but also care about the study of other students in our class. I said that a few students in our class began to learn and make rapid progress, but some students' grades declined.
My mother said to me, "What do you think of your exam?" I said, "Not bad."
Dad said seriously, "It's much better than last semester, but I'll work harder next time, you know?"
I said loudly, "I know, I will definitely work harder!" " "
My parents looked at me and said, "Do you think the competition you are facing now is fierce? Do you feel pressured? "
I replied, "Of course, the competition is fierce. There are still many students in my class whose grades are better than mine. Everyone is chasing after me, and they have to face competitors from other classes. Can this competition not be fierce? "
Then, my parents and I expressed our views on this issue.
I think certain competition can inspire our fighting spirit and let us work hard towards our goals. With the atmosphere of classmates chasing after each other, we will be tense. Of course, competition should also be moderate. If there is no competition, we will relax and we don't know how to make progress.
My mother thinks that proper pressure and competition can promote my study and growth on the learning road. Competition is not only a challenge for us, but also an opportunity to show myself, and it is also the embodiment of my ability to surpass myself. It will urge me to succeed step by step and realize my dream.
Dad went on to say, "Competition exists in all aspects of our lives. For example, in chess, every player wants to win. Aren't you the same? "
The topics I discussed with my parents benefited me a lot. A suitable competitive environment is conducive to our study and growth. If we can't even bear the competitive pressure in learning, how can we stand in this more competitive society in the future? Therefore, from now on, I will study harder, face the competition in my study with a normal heart and continue to work hard towards the next goal.
In the fourth grade of primary school, I wrote no less than 370 words about visiting relatives. On the second day of New Year's Day, I got up early, put on beautiful new clothes, and waited happily to go to my grandmother's house for the New Year.
I wolfed down my breakfast and couldn't wait to take my mother's hand and run out. As he ran, he hurriedly called, "Hurry up! Go to the New Year! " I wrote about the joy of New Year's greetings. )
Look, a brand-new Spring Festival couplets is posted at the door (on both sides); There are a pair of red lanterns hanging on the door; There is a pot of Huang Chengcheng New Year oranges in front of the door, which is not only wrapped in oranges, but also wrapped in red envelopes, surrounded by several pots of gorgeous flowers. The description of the environment not only reflects the festive atmosphere, but also reflects the author's cheerful mood for the New Year. However, the sentence "I gave my sincere admiration" seems insincere and doesn't feel like it. )
As soon as I entered the door, I blurted out, "Happy New Year, Grandma! Congratulations on making a fortune! " "Ha ha-"A burst of laughter broke out in the room. When I looked intently, it was obviously my grandfather. How can I call my grandmother? I quickly waved my hand: "I'm sorry! Good morning, grandpa! Congratulations on making a fortune! " Grandpa said kindly, "Oh! Never mind, come in and sit down! " Just sitting down, grandpa poured a cup of tea for everyone: "Come on, have a cup of hot tea to warm up, it's freezing outside!" " "I respectfully took the cup in grandpa's hand:" Thank you, grandpa! """You're welcome!" Grandpa said that he began to be busy, and he would bring us more tea and fruit later. He's too busy! At this time, grandma came over with a smile, took out two red envelopes from her pocket and handed them to me. She said kindly, "Yongxin, I wish you good health and academic progress!" " "I quickly took the red envelope and smiled:" Thank you! I wish grandma good health and all the best! Grandma touched my head and said, "lovely, you look one year older than last year, and you are much more sensible!" " ! "Eat something quickly!" I nodded happily, and there were bursts of happy laughter from time to time in the room.
5. Visit relatives and friends to write New Year greetings
On New Year's Day, my parents and I went to visit my grandparents who had just returned from Shanghai. I overslept that morning. Suddenly, I heard a "ding". I suddenly sat up. My mother came over and said, "Get dressed. Let's go to grandparents' house to pay New Year's greetings. "As soon as I heard this, I ran to my grandparents' house, jumped three feet high and got dressed immediately.
When I arrived at my grandmother's house, my parents took out six bottles of yellow wine from my mother's unit and handed them to my grandparents. They smiled and said, "I wish my parents good health and get younger every year." It's my turn when mom and dad pay New Year greetings. I cleaned up the noise and said, "I wish my grandparents good health, all the best and a long life." Grandparents smiled, took out a red envelope and said, "OK, OK, well said!" "I also laughed like my grandparents. After laughing, grandma asked, "Bao Xiao, how did you do this time?" I replied, "Chinese 99 points, math 96 points. "Unexpectedly, my grandmother said," I did well in the exam and won 100 yuan. " Say that finish, and gave me 100 yuan.
After a while, grandpa cooked. He took out two cups, poured two glasses of wine he had just brought, and drank them with his father. Grandpa said while drinking, "It's delicious! Delicious! " My grandfather is over seventy, but he is a "big drunk"! When he left, grandpa said to his mother, "This wine is really delicious. Bring a few bottles after drinking next time. "
6. Visit friends and relatives. When I walked out of the gate, I was hit by a breeze. What a refreshing morning!
Today, I'm going to visit my good friend in the Four Seasons shed again! Some are in bud and some are in full bloom, which is really varied; Some are intoxicating, some are fragrant ... they have different varieties and different personalities. Want to know who they are? They are-flowers.
As soon as I entered the Four Seasons shed, I greeted them one by one: Hello! Fresh and elegant jasmine. When Miss Chun awakens everything, you grow new leaves. The new branches are furry and very popular. There are a pair of small green leaves at the top of the new branch, just like a newborn baby looking at this magical world with small eyes open.
Hello! The king of flowers-peony. Although you are rich, you are not luxurious; You are gorgeous, but not charming; Although you are the king of flowers, you never look down on the world!
Hello! Elegant roses. You are not shy like a water lily, but you have a simple and dignified beauty. You give off a faint scent, not as intoxicating as cloves, but refreshing.
Hello! Fragrant lotus, your color is white, pink, white as pure as jade, pink as gorgeous as chardonnay. The breeze is blowing, and the fragrance is floating, which is really refreshing.
Hello! The red Chinese rose is about to drip. Beautiful flowers are blooming on your branches. You stretch the water-red petals, revealing the breeze of goose yellow stamens, and the refreshing fragrance floats from time to time.
Hello! Yinxing Haitang, it is gratifying that you have opened your unique tender leaves. Your leaves are white in green, red in silver and purple in red. They are brightly colored. The leaves are strange, scraggy. They are wrinkled, just like the flowered seersucker worn by young girls in summer.
Hello! Red cordate telosma Summer night, at about eight o'clock, your budding bud slowly, slowly opened, opened, you completely opened! The four delicate petals are pale yellow, holding the orange stamens tightly like the four sisters, forming a beautiful cordate telosma! A gust of wind blew, and from a distance, the flowers of cordate telosma danced among the green leaves like small butterflies!
The moon has risen, so I should go home. I waved my hand gently, bid farewell to the flower friend, and brought back a good mood and good memories.
7. Visiting relatives in the Spring Festival 300 words The Spring Festival is coming, and everyone will visit relatives and friends! Our family is no exception. Today, my parents took my sister and me to my cousin's house to play, and I was very happy to think that I could visit my cousin.
After a while, we finally arrived at my cousin's house. My grandparents and cousins came out to meet us. I haven't seen her for a year. My cousin has grown up a lot and can recite poems. As long as my grandmother said the first few words of a sentence and left one or two words for my cousin to say, we all thought he couldn't say it. Unexpectedly, he was right. He went on to say that my grandmother said that as long as there were 70 ancient poems, he might be right.
"Cousin can count!" As soon as I heard it, I wanted to test him. I said "one" and he said "two". I didn't hear you clearly, but I still heard you clearly. He said two, three, four, five, six and seven, and we talked for more than fifty minutes, and I stopped.
At this time, my cousin came out and said that she wanted archaeological poetry, and the two also started a "war." Cousin said "the window is bright and clean" first.
Moonlight, doubt, frost, looked up at the lights, the moon, bowed their heads and thought, my hometown,,, and my cousin also drummed a few songs, but the drums didn't bother me, so my cousin had to give up.
After the "defeat", we asked grandma, why did you knock these things? Grandma told us that she would read a poem to her every time she slept, and gradually she would learn it herself.
Everyone must feel very strange! Why should we praise him? It's easy to know this! However, if he is a child less than a year old, it is not surprising!
8. I wrote a 2000-word Chinese composition about visiting relatives, hoping for the stars and the moon, and finally the long-awaited Spring Festival came. I am like a cheerful bird, very happy!
Let's go to grandma's house for dinner. Many shops were opened along the way, and fireworks rang all over the sky, which was very lively. Outside the hotel, there is a flower basket of "Huashan Flower Sea" with many colorful flags hanging at the top, which is as lively as the New Year! And those motor tricycles with a little red flag in them!
When I arrived at my grandmother's house, I just stepped into the door with one foot and smelled a delicious meal. I went in and took a look. Wow! There are so many delicious foods! Big crab, fried lobster, chicken, Tibetan fish, braised pork ... Looking at it, you can't help but "drool three thousands of feet". In the blink of an eye, my stomach is "goo goo" hungry!
10 minutes later, we can finally eat. Although it's a short time, it's a long time for me ... my mouth is wolfing down. Wow, I haven't eaten such a fat crab for a long time. I took a chicken leg and drank a drink, silently saying, "delicious, delicious!" " "Adults are talking and laughing, and we children are also chatting, chatting about games and interesting things. Everyone is very happy.
9. I remember writing a 450-word composition during a visit. In the morning, the rising sun cut off a hazy veil, and everything in front of us was no longer cloudy. Take a deep breath. The fresh air is like milk just squeezed out of a bucket, mixed with the smell of hay, which makes people feel extremely comfortable. Walking to the lake and looking at the empty place, I remembered the old man in rags.
Every morning, at dawn, the old man always sets up his Xiao Mu stand by the lake on time. Whenever a child passes by his booth, he always raises his mouth, clearly reveals deep wrinkles and smiles at the child. Even if some naughty children played tricks on him, he wouldn't say a word, just smiled tolerantly, as if he were very kind to his grandson. That kind smile touched me.
To my surprise, I didn't find the thin and twisted figure of the old man today. I looked everywhere, but I couldn't find it. I asked the person next to me, but I heard an unexpected news-the old man drowned the day before yesterday because he saved a drowning child. I can't help feeling sad when I hear the bad news. Since then, there has been less kindness in this world.
I restrained myself and quietly came to the old man's residence. This is my second visit to his so-called "home". Last time I came in a hurry, but this time I visited in this situation ... this is a simple hut with simple furnishings. When you cross the threshold, you can smell dry wood as soon as you enter the door, and the ground is full of pieces of complete wood. These should have been carved by old people before! Facing the door is a bed made of wood. There is a pillow and a thin quilt on the bed, which is in rags. Looking up and looking around, the original white wall has been covered with dust accumulated for many years and turned gray. There is a simple stove in the east; The opposite is the "workbench" of the old man. I stepped forward and looked at the wooden models and tools made on the table. I thought grandpa would carve out the children's favorite toys with his dexterous hands every night when he came back from the stall! How much he loves children!
I turned around and found a picture on the pillow, and the old man was there. What a bright smile! Picking up the photo, I remembered that the old man had told me that he had a happy family, but later he was kicked out of the house because his son didn't like him. From then on, he will never go back to his original home ... How much he misses his grandson! He also wants to make many interesting things for his grandson to play with! Such a poor old man ... just when I wanted to put the photo back, I was surprised to find traces of being wet in the photo. Perhaps every sad and quiet night is a kind of suffering for the elderly. Even though his eyes were full of tears, he still couldn't wash away the loneliness and homesickness.
I sat on the old man's bed, holding his family photo and watching it over and over again. My vision is sometimes clear and sometimes blurred. In this way, I sat all afternoon. When I came out of the old man's house, it was already dark, and the cold wind blew again and again, drilling into my body and my heart, and I couldn't help shivering.
I looked up at the sky and the stars. At this time, I seem to see the kind face of the old man, that is, the farthest star, which seems to be waving to me. However, who will notice that a lonely star is still shining desperately, so that one day someone will find him and be moved by his embellishment; Who will understand why that lonely star is lonely and tries to shine the last ray of light on another day? In order to illuminate another darkness; Who can hear the call of Lonely Star? Calling for distant relatives; Calling pedestrians to look back and smile; Call for the last warmth ...
10. Visiting relatives and friends composition On New Year's Day, my parents and I went to visit my grandparents who had just returned from Shanghai.
I overslept that morning. Suddenly, I heard a "ding". I suddenly sat up. My mother came over and said, "Get dressed. Let's go to grandparents' house to pay New Year's greetings. "As soon as I heard this, I ran to my grandparents' house, jumped three feet high and got dressed immediately.
When I arrived at my grandmother's house, my parents took out six bottles of yellow wine from my mother's unit and handed them to my grandparents. They smiled and said, "I wish my parents good health and get younger every year." It's my turn when mom and dad pay New Year greetings. I cleaned up the noise and said, "I wish my grandparents good health, all the best and a long life."
Grandparents smiled, took out a red envelope and said, "OK, OK, well said!" "I also laughed like my grandparents. After a while, grandpa cooked. He took out two cups, poured two glasses of wine he had just brought, and drank them with his father.
Grandpa said while drinking, "It's delicious! Delicious! " My grandfather is over seventy, but he is a "big drunk"! When he left, grandpa said to his mother, "This wine is really delicious. Bring a few bottles after drinking next time. " .