To catch a man's heart, first catch his stomach. As the saying goes, if you want to catch a man's heart, you must first catch a man's stomach. This sentence seems to make sense. Most women can cook by themselves. Let's take a look at grasping a man's heart and stomach first.

To catch a man's heart, first catch his stomach. 1 My husband and I both work in the same company, but the company has a wonderful rule that people in the same company can't fall in love. If they are found out, they can only wait for the fate of being fired, so in order to let my husband continue to develop in the company, I voluntarily resigned and changed to another company.

My husband and I have been married for five years now, and our marriage feelings are very stable, and we also have the crystallization of love, our baby daughter.

But sometimes I am very unhappy, because my husband and I are both people who can't cook, and sometimes we don't have time to cook at home when we are busy at work, so eating out has become a very common thing.

Because my husband's performance in the company is very good, all the indicators have been completed quite well. When his daughter was three years old, he was promoted and became the head of the marketing department. One by one, our life is better than before.

However, problems also follow. Husband often has to accompany clients and entertain various banquets, but every time he goes out to eat with clients, they will definitely let some beautiful girls eat and drink with him.

I didn't say anything at first, and I felt that my husband couldn't help it. After all, I have seen many such scenes in the shopping mall, and my husband's performance also makes me feel at ease, because he always reports to me which customer is eating today and who is the girl who is drinking with me.

But slowly, I found that my husband didn't come back to dinner with me even if he didn't accompany his clients. Instead, I often go to a female colleague's house for dinner with three or five colleagues, saying that it is because the female colleague has cooked a good dish and wants to take her home as long as she has eaten her cooking.

My husband and I protested several times, and my husband said I thought too much. He followed me to dinner just to discuss things at work by the way, and did nothing wrong to me.

But even if my husband explains this to me, I don't believe it! What can I do now to get my husband back to have dinner with us?

So what can a woman do to catch a man's heart?

1, grab the husband's stomach first.

Every day after work, the wife cooks a delicious dinner for her husband, then turns on all the lights in the house and waits for her husband to come home late. Men often feel the warmth of home in this situation. When a husband brings his work home, a wife should not try to turn his attention to herself. She can add water to his quick drink, or make a snack, and he will feel particularly warm. Women want to love their husbands, but do you know what he cares about most?

2. Make your husband face.

I must be good at getting along with my husband's friends and colleagues, and also know how to maintain myself beautifully. In fact, men, like women, love to compare themselves. They compare themselves with only a few things: life, career and women. If you are still charming and beautiful after 30, your husband will be happy to take you to his friend's party, because you will make your husband's face shine.

3. Give each other some freedom.

Don't tie a person to death. If he is not allowed to go to nightclubs or meet other women, sometimes his feelings will break up because of these little behaviors in life. Give men a certain degree of freedom, then men will know how to repay, return more warmth and responsibility for the future.

To catch a man's heart, first catch his stomach. Since Bao Xiao came into being, my husband went out to work and didn't like to go home for dinner at noon. Because sometimes I just look after the children, and I don't have time to cook good food for him. Besides, he has a tight time to go home for dinner, so I have to leave immediately after eating. Sometimes Bao Xiao will be very happy to haunt him when he comes home, and he will always be by his side when he eats, so that this meal has eaten him for a long time. After that, he didn't like going home for dinner at noon. Go out in the morning and go home in the afternoon.

Maybe he was used to eating out and didn't like my cooking at first. He called several times to say that he would not go home for dinner at noon. I said yes, we cooked ribs at home. Finally, I went home in the afternoon and didn't see the ribs, so I couldn't do it again. Like the story Wolf, I finally fell for it. It's very hot, and I really don't want to eat this greasy food. But in order to make him eat comfortably, it has to be like this.

A few days later, I went out early to buy fresh spareribs, and he cooked them without waiting for me. On this day, instead of going out for a day as usual, he went out for a trip and went home at once. And I took the initiative to look after Bao Xiao when I got home, and my attitude towards Dabao Bao Xiao was much better. Finally, I said that he wanted to eat ribs. Why didn't you say so earlier? Why not buy it yourself? He had the cheek to say that he just wanted me to buy it for him. It turns out that like a child, it will be very happy to give something delicious.

To catch a man's heart, first catch his stomach. Make the theory of "grasping a man's stomach" famous. I'm afraid this will go back to the sentence in Zhang Ailing's novel Lust, Caution: The road to a man's heart leads to his stomach.

Having said that, if you want to control a man's heart in your own hands, it is natural to take the stomach as an important checkpoint.

Is this sentence reasonable?

Of course there is.

Xu Fan, a famous actor, once said that the secret of his stable marriage with Xiaogang Feng was to grab his stomach. Xiaogang Feng is very busy at work and eats irregularly. Xu Fan loves her husband's belly very much, so she often cooks "love lunch" for him.

Most people think that it is natural for women to cook. I'm afraid this view has existed since the beginning of human existence.

Since ancient times, men are responsible for hunting, women are responsible for gathering, men bring back ingredients, and women cook food. When a person has been running around for a day, a steaming meal awaits him after returning home, and the warm satiety washes away the whole day's hard work. For them, the meal cooked by his wife means home, which is a kind of concern that is hard to give up. Therefore, this woman who can give him this kind of satisfaction naturally becomes a fetter that he can't give up, moving from the inside out and from the stomach to the heart.

Perhaps this is what men have rooted in genes since ancient times.

That meal, for men, is more than just a meal. It is a woman's gentle smile, expectant eyes, anxious waiting, a fireworks life in the noisy downtown, a home, a safe haven and a simple truth in the world.

After a busy day's work outside, when I get home, I can smell the aroma of the food in the kitchen and hear my wife's hard work, so I can relax in an instant.

At home, men don't have to wear suits and ties, and they don't have to cater to them. Instead, you can return to your child's state, make jokes at will, and be informal.

Men at this time, in fact, have long been indifferent to what to eat and whether it is delicious.

All he wants is this feeling of relaxation.

A taste, a nostalgia.

Just like the "smell of mom" that many people have always missed. Not necessarily because the dishes cooked by my mother are as delicious as the chefs in high-end restaurants, but because my mother's taste is home, warmth and unreserved love and yearning for her children.

However, if you really serve well every day, can you make a man be dead set on your side?

Of course not.

I know a woman, a. Not pretty. Therefore, based on the principle of grasping a man's stomach, I learned a good cooking skill. Just listening to her recipes every day makes me envy that I can only fry tomatoes and eggs and often fry them, which makes me feel guilty about my teacher Yin.

I thought her husband would be reluctant to go home early every day just for this meal. Who knows, one day, I heard A complain that my husband is not at home every night. I cooked a table of dishes, and he said he wouldn't go home to eat and had to work overtime. Who are you kidding? He is a clerk in a public institution. What classes can he take? Nothing more than playing games in the office. I didn't go home until eleven o'clock, preferring to go to work and eat KFC.

I was surprised and asked her why.

A replied that she didn't know either.

I asked again, how nice it is for a family to sit together and have dinner and chat. Why not enjoy such a good life?

A said, how can I have time to chat? After dinner, I have to help my son with his homework and practice the piano with him. When my son fell asleep, I had to be busy with my work. Besides, my husband eats too much, and I'm afraid my son won't have enough to eat. I always let my son eat first and then eat. Besides, after so many years of marriage, there is nothing to talk about. If you talk too much, you will easily quarrel if you disagree. It's best not to talk.

So, I finally understand why her husband would rather eat KFC than go home for dinner.

Because men care more about the tenderness behind the diet.

In other words, a soft-hearted woman is more attractive to men than a good meal.

There are many women, like A, who are really so-called good wives and mothers. Busy as a bee every day, the house is clean, the children are properly taken care of, and the food is fancy. Of course, I can't stop working. Make yourself like a top that can't stop. At the end of the day, I am so tired that I can hardly get up, and my heart will inevitably become nagging.

At first the man nodded in response, but after a long time, he was too tired to respond.

And this state will lead to more and more nagging of women and more and more helpless escape of men.

As a result, there will be men coming home late, working overtime and socializing.

If a gentle woman appears at this time, but any man with a little poor attention may be at risk of making mistakes.

Even this mistress can't cook at all.

It can be seen that a meal is very important, but it is not that important.

It won't make men infatuated, but it will make men want to stay.

The key is, what kind of feelings does the woman behind this meal face?

If you take it as a message of love and pour your deep feelings into it, even if the food itself is tasteless, it will make people like it.

If it is a responsibility, a task to be completed every day, even if it is delicious, it is hard to swallow.

Just like Xu Fan's success, it is actually more about "love" than "convenience".

Therefore, if you want to catch a man's heart, you must first catch a man's stomach, which is not so easy. Otherwise, wouldn't it be popular with those chef schools?

In marriage management, a meal is really important.

But it's not just a meal that matters.