Xiaoling is born after 1995. She got married two years ago. Some time ago, she transformed into a baby mother and gave birth to a fair and chubby boy. The whole family was very happy. Now that the country is implementing the two-child policy, relatives are laughing and saying that if they give birth to a little girl next time, it will be perfect and they will have both children. How happy it will be. But Xiaoling was not very happy when she heard it. Instead, she said, "I would rather have two sons than one daughter."

The relatives present were a little surprised when they heard this, but they didn’t ask in detail. They said that men and women are the same, as long as they are healthy. Why does Xiaoling have such thoughts? How can you still think of favoring boys over girls?

In fact, there are many mothers who have the same idea as Xiaoling. Especially after pregnancy and childbirth, mothers will have the idea of ????not wanting to give birth to a girl. This is not because Bao Ma has the idea of ????valuing boys over girls, but when she is on the verge of death, Xiao Ling said that thinking that girls will go to the gate of hell a few times like her in the future is risking her own life. Very worried. So Xiao Ling also expressed his opinion that he would rather have two boys than one girl.

This is only one of the reasons. Although there is no serious preference for boys over girls, society's requirements for girls have not changed much, especially in front of the family.

Some time ago, a popular joke appeared on the short video platform, saying that "the world's requirements for women are too high", which mentioned that "the country advocates a second child, the hospital recommends breastfeeding, and experts require that you bring your own child" Baby, the marriage law mentions that women need to be independent, children need the company of their mothers, and husbands want their wives to be gentle and sensible, etc. These are not big problems in isolation, but it is too difficult to completely require women to do it. Although the world is changing, But women’s roles in society and family cannot change all of a sudden.

Girls must learn to be independent when they enter society, but they are still a vulnerable group. We are vulnerable to certain forces. Giving birth is a part of being a woman, but only women understand the hardships involved, especially the ten-month pregnancy and delivery process.

In the family, women have to take on a lot of work, such as housework, educating children, honoring parents-in-law, dealing with relationships, etc. These tasks may make women breathless, and they may also have to face an uncomfortable situation. A husband who is too considerate or a picky in-laws and relatives will put women under tremendous invisible pressure.

Although the world that girls have to face is very complicated, mothers should not be too nervous. You must know that the world is always moving in a better direction, and girls can also rely on their own abilities to go on well. All parents need to do is give our children our love.

1. Let children feel the love of their parents. Children's growth cannot be separated from the nourishment of love. Parents must give the same love to boys and girls, at least without obvious favoritism. Only by giving the girl a sufficient sense of security and letting her feel that she is loved can she know how to love. Love yourself and others.

2. Teach children to learn to grow independently. Blindly worrying about the problems your children face will not help. Then accept the reality of girls, give your children a good education from an early age, let your children grow up, and master the ability to grow independently so that they can independently deal with the problems that arise in life. It is the education and ability that children need.

It is not terrible that the child is a girl. You must know that girls are more considerate and know how to get close to their parents, so cherish the time you spend with your children, give them our love and education, so that your children can grow freely and healthily. As you grow, you can learn to face problems by yourself even if you encounter problems. Girls also have their own lives to face, and there is no point in worrying. We teach our children everything we have so that there will be no regrets. After all, children can only walk their own path.