Now I'm out of town, because my friends here are going home to get married and can't go back to the wedding reception. I'm going to invite them here for dinner. Can I eat hot pot?
Yes, the wedding reception is just a formality. It means the blessing you get, and it also indicates the responsibility you will bear. Friends' blessings include harmony, prayer and hope. It doesn't matter what you eat. As long as friends know that when you get married, he is a part of your happiness, then a good meal and a bad meal will become insignificant in the trivial past!