Family reception etiquette

1, preparation before welcoming guests

First of all, after learning that the guests are coming to visit, you should clean and tidy up the yard in advance. I'm sure you don't want visiting guests to see a messy environment, so you should pack up in advance and prepare drinks, tea sets, cigarettes, fruits and sweets. When the guests arrive, you should go out to meet them.

2. Take rain gear or clothes from the guests.

Guests should also pay attention to reception etiquette when they arrive. When they enter the door, you can take the rain gear or coat of the guest or indicate where to put it, but remember, don't take the guest's handbag with your hands and don't receive the guest in pajamas.

3. A toast to cigarettes

Smoking is also a custom that cannot be ignored in our country. After the general guests enter the door, they can serve fruit first, ask them to taste it, then open the cigarette case, pop up a few cigarettes and invite them to smoke. If guests smoke, they should light cigarettes for them. If they don't smoke, don't force them. If they want to smoke, they can ask them first. Can I smoke? This can show respect for the guests.

Step 4 serve tea

There is also a certain etiquette in offering tea. Wash the tea set first, and then pour two-thirds of the tea leaves into the teacup. You should observe the etiquette of seven drinks and eight drinks, and don't pour it too full. Then bring the tea to the guests with both hands. Generally, you hold the ear of the cup in one hand and the bottom of the cup in the other. Do you also want to make a sentence? Tea, please. .

5. Fujian etiquette

When guests leave, the host should first stay with polite words. If the guest still insists on leaving, he should wait for the guest to get up and see him off. Don't be too anxious. Don't let the guests say goodbye. The host stood up at once. When you send him, you usually just send him to the gate or the alley. If the guest brings a gift, the host should also express gratitude or return the gift.

The family received instructions.

First of all, welcome etiquette.

1, ready

When you know that a guest is visiting, you should make preparations in advance. The owner's clothes should be neat, the family layout should be clean and beautiful, the children should arrange education reasonably, and fruits, snacks, drinks, tobacco and alcohol, and dishes should be prepared in advance. If it is a formal banquet, such as wedding, birthday, etc. You also need to send invitations or telephone invitations in advance, determine the time and place of the banquet, arrange seats, select guests, and implement the form, scale and grade of the banquet.

Step 2 welcome

When the guests arrive at the appointed time, they should meet at the door in advance. It is unwise to wait in the room. The couple had better go together. If the guest comes suddenly, treat him warmly. If the room is not cleaned, you should apologize and clean it properly, but it is not advisable to clean it immediately, because cleaning means expelling guests. When you meet the guests, you should greet them warmly, and the hostess should take the initiative to reach out and shake hands. Guests should take the initiative to help when carrying things. For the elderly or the weak, you can come forward to help. When entering the room, they should give the best seats to the guests. If the guest is visiting for the first time, he should introduce himself to his family or guests. The host's expression should be a smile, not a depression.

3. Cigarettes and tea

Visitors are men, and as soon as they sit down, the host usually offers a cigarette immediately. Avoid holding cigarettes directly with your hands. You should open the cigarette case, pop out some cigarettes and give them to the guests, and ask them to help themselves. Smoking, don't forget to respect the fire. If the host can smoke, he should be a guest before the host. Wash the tea set before making tea. ? Light tea with a full glass of wine? Tea should be held in both hands and placed above the guest's right hand to respect the elders first.

Step 4 chat with guests

You should talk to the candy of rock tea in time after paying a New Year call. The content of the topic may depend on the actual situation. Generally speaking, we should talk about things that guests are familiar with. If we can't talk to our guests, we can arrange a person of the same status to accompany us or provide newspapers and magazines, and turn on the TV for our guests' entertainment. There must be no phenomenon that the host only cares about himself and doesn't care about the guests.

Second, visit etiquette.

1. Appointment or invitation

When visiting other people's homes, you can take the initiative or be invited. If yes, the former should call or write in advance to make an appointment, so as to avoid sudden trouble to others; Whether the latter agrees or refuses, they should inform the other party in time. It is forbidden to promise an invitation and then stand up because of another appointment.

2. Arrival etiquette

First of all, you should arrive on time or a little earlier. When you arrive at the door of the host's house, you should first wipe the mud off your feet and ring the doorbell to avoid heavy hands or feet for too long. After entering the door, you should give your coat and rain gear to the host, say hello and greetings to the host's family and other guests present, and then sit down until the host arranges or designates a seat; When the host offers tea and cigarettes, stand up and thank him with both hands. When lighting a cigarette, he must stand up, lean forward and salute. Peel, stone, ash and cigarette butts should not be thrown about.

Step 3: Leave.

As a guest, you should get up and say goodbye immediately after saying goodbye orally. Say goodbye several times, or sit and chat. Don't forget to thank the host for his warm hospitality before you leave, especially to say goodbye to the hostess. When the host walks you to the door to say goodbye, you should take the initiative to shake hands with the host to say goodbye? Please go back? , stay? Goodbye? Polite expressions like this