At the age of 0, after my mother went through all the hardships, I saw the first ray of sunshine. I leaned lazily beside my mother and let her touch my skin inch by inch. I feel the beauty of life. Blue sky, white clouds, birds singing in the branches, singing the birth of new life!
That year, my mother was 27 years old. She goes to work on a sturdy two-wheeled bike. Her skin is fair and her hair is like clouds.
When I was 3 years old, I entered kindergarten. I'm with other children. We have lunch together, draw pictures together, observe saplings together and take a nap together. My chair fell, please help me. You didn't bring a marker, so I lent it to you. My mother is very busy, so she asked me to stay in kindergarten. But she still didn't forget to take time out of her busy schedule to see me. I remember one day, I went to bed By the dim light in the corridor, I saw a familiar figure looking at the dormitory door. It's my mother! I was surprised, but I wanted my mother to know that I had always been a good boy at school, so I quickly closed my eyes and pretended to be asleep. I felt warm and happy, and I started an independent life.
That year, my mother was thirty. She is no longer a carefree girl. She doesn't often go shopping, karaoke or just work, but she cares more about * * *. Every Friday, I always expect my mother to pick me up. When she appeared at the door in a dark blue uniform and epaulettes, my classmates always shouted in surprise: "Wow! Your mother is a policeman! " I always proudly nodded to them and rushed to my mother's arms.
At the age of 6, I was successfully admitted to Shanghai Experimental School. With my own efforts, I always get the first place in every exam. I won the prize in the on-site composition competition and the gold medal in the national Olympic mathematics competition. I am beaming with a glittering certificate.
My mother is 33 years old and my company moved from Puxi to Pudong. It is even more difficult to commute every day. I take the shuttle bus, change the subway, and go out early and return late. When I wake up in the dead of night, I often see my mother checking her homework By chance, I found a dazzling white hair in my mother's beautiful black hair. I said to my mother, "Let me help you pull out your gray hair!" " ""good! "Mom answered with a smile ..."
Nine years old, the most unforgettable year for me, because I got the piano certificate of 10. Five years of hard work and five years of sweat are all gathered on this small certificate. The moment I held the certificate, I jumped with excitement and everyone congratulated me.
That year, my mother was seriously ill. My grandmother told me that that year was my mother's animal year, and red should be used to ward off evil spirits. So I bought a red mobile phone case for my mother with lucky money. My mother smiled happily when she got the gift I gave her. At this time, I suddenly found that thin wrinkles had climbed up the corner of my mother's eye. ...
Now, I wish to enter the junior high school of the experimental school. In the spacious new classroom and beautiful campus, I grow sturdily like a small green sapling.
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I can't remember how many times my parents caressed me and encouraged me with a smile. Maybe these things are too common, too common, and we often ignore them. Until one day, I walked on the road of life and suddenly stopped to look back, only to find that it was those neglected details that overflowed with deep love and grew up happily with me all the time. But at this time, our parents are no longer young, and white hair is creeping up on them.
The love of parents is the most selfless love in the world. At that time, light was flying. When we are immersed in piles of homework all day, when we are looking forward to growing up, please don't ignore our parents who have worked hard for us, ignoring every gray hair, every wrinkle and every affectionate detail.
Unforgettable love
Unforgettable affection There are many small fish in my mind, which constitute my unforgettable affection, but my most unforgettable affection is the golden goldfish …
I remember when I was in the third grade, I went to school just after the end of the year, and my classmates talked happily about the beauty of spring. However, I don't think it's good. Because I went to school in the cold of spring, my teeth shook when I got up in the morning. The classmate said, "Look, her lips are all blue." After several classes, I got home very uncomfortable and fell asleep in bed.
I heard a familiar voice in my sleep, "Get up! Xiao Yan! " When I woke up, I saw my mother. I said, "I seem to have a fever." My mother quickly measured me with a thermometer, and my temperature was 40 degrees. My mother immediately became nervous. I called the class teacher to ask for leave. Then, my mother quickly picked up the cup and poured me water to drink the antipyretic. I carefully found that my mother had sweat on her forehead and rolled straight down. I think my mother must be very anxious. I must get better soon.
I don't know why I had a high fever, and I was sweating like a pig after drinking the medicine. My mother is busy changing towels to wipe my back. I was too busy to eat at noon and went to bed again ... I felt my mother went to the hospital behind my back. I didn't expect to stay in the hospital for a week and four days. You can also log in to the composition network to contribute.
Every day when I open my eyes, I see my mother standing beside me. When I got better, I found that my mother's eyes were black and her silver hair was a little more …
The power of emotion
One Sunday morning, I finished my homework and felt bored, so I asked my brother to play computer games with me. At the beginning, he seriously suggested to me: "Let's play a game and don't cheat!" I readily agreed.
Then, my brother played a game and it was my turn. I may think I don't have the cells to play games. Seeing that I was bored, I went outside to play. As he expected, I was defeated in a short time. I was about to play another game when I remembered my agreement with my brother. I felt inappropriate, so I shouted, "Brother, I played a game, come in!" " No one responded. I called several times, but my brother didn't come in. "Hey, let's play a few more games!" I said to myself. Just as I was having fun, my brother came in and saw that I was still playing. He said angrily, "why are you still playing?" Did you play too much? " "Yes!" I didn't notice that he was angry. Suddenly, he called me names and I called him back. It wasn't long before we swore at each other, and he swore an ugly sentence, "You ..." I was so angry that I couldn't help but burst into tears: "How can I have a younger brother like you?" Seeing me cry, he felt guilty and dared not say anything. I turned and ran away.
I threw myself on the bed and kept crying. Isn't it just to play games? Is this necessary? I called him, but he was playing outside and didn't come in! On second thought, I was also at fault. I won't do this after a game! Thought of here, I have some regrets.
At lunch time, my mother asked me to go downstairs for dinner. I have to dry my tears. My mother is alone in the kitchen. She saw me and inexplicably asked, "Why are you crying?" "Where is it?" Mom smiled. "Your face is full of tears. The most obvious thing is that it turns red when you cry. Isn't your nose red now What's wrong? " I didn't expect my mother to know me so well, but she still didn't say it. I told the truth under my mother's repeated questioning. My mother is not angry. She said kindly, "It doesn't matter. Family harmony is most important. You and your brother must apologize to each other. Come on, let's go find my brother. " My brother is coming. He knew what was going on and cried. My mother said, "All right! You are quick to apologize to each other! " "I'm sorry, I shouldn't play games secretly." "Sister, I'm sorry, I shouldn't scold you." "Never mind!" In this way, a "family storm" subsided.
It was the power of family that resolved the misunderstanding between my brother and me. Mom is right, family harmony is the most important thing. How painful it is to have no affection! We should cherish it.
the song in love
I remember Boccaccio of Italy said that friendship is the most sacred thing. I think otherwise, the most selfless and precious thing in the world is affection, which is much more important than friendship, and people's affection is unique.
There are all kinds of people in the world, and everything will happen, but the only constant is affection, which is the love of parents for their children. This reminds me of an article I once read. The story happened in a fire in Daxing 'anling. A mother bird sent them under a tree to protect her children. Although the mother bird was burned alive, her child survived.
Around us, parents love their children everywhere. Parents face us with a selfless feeling. They would rather be hungry than have us eat and wear warm clothes. Some people may say that I am an orphan. Without parents, where is the affection? But the assistance you received in the orphanage as a child was not full of affection, was it? Therefore, in the eyes of many people, affection is as important as fate. But now some people think that family ties are worthless. I was surprised to find that many children do not cherish the fruits of their parents' labor more and more, and often only regard their parents as inexhaustible wealth. No matter how much parents nag, they always turn a blind eye, as if they have nothing to do with themselves. Children in the neighborhood have conflicts with their parents every day, only in. I only think about my parents. I also read a magazine saying that an old man in his seventies can't even get into his children's house, let alone have a meal there. These things, which were unheard of before, now seem to be commonplace.
Filial piety is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. Confucianism once said that filial piety is the first; Reader magazine also reported that raising children is the instinct of all animals in the world, and only human beings know how to honor their parents. Should we give up this virtue of everything that only we humans have? Will it also disappear from our generation? No, we must never give up, we must praise our family! Otherwise, how can you claim to be the spirit of all things?
Feel feelings
"Shake, shake, shake to the Waipo Bridge ..." I don't know who gently snorted and pulled me back from my thoughts. Waipoqiao, Waipoqiao, grandma must be "watching" me again. My eyes seem to see her leaning out of her small body, standing on the high threshold, tiptoeing against the door, expecting. At this point, there was a thick scene.
My grandmother is a loyal Jesuit. Every night, she always finished her meal early, knelt on the hard bed as usual, and led me to pray together. Because I was young, my grandmother was afraid that I could not stand kneeling on the hard bed, so she found a cotton bag to cushion me. My grandmother has never been to school in her life, but she really has a way of praying, which can be called "orderly". I have to add "Amen" at the end. I don't know what it means at all, and my grandmother probably doesn't know it very well. I just think it's interesting to echo each other with her. She prays for her children and grandchildren every day: I hope this one is healthy and safe, and I wish that one all the best; Of course, there are also many praises for Jesus. Then there is singing, and my grandmother usually hums from time to time. Many times, when I was tired of kneeling, I secretly glanced at her, but she was still kneeling. Considering that grandma has been suffering from leg disease for many years, I am really worried that she will not last. So I asked, "Grandma, are you tired?" She struggled to raise her head: "Don't cross it, or it will be invalid." I stared at her suspiciously. Her eyes are wide open, full of firmness and piety. I had to stop talking and stare at the cotton bag.
As I grew older, I gradually realized that praying to Jesus was superstitious and there would be no savior at all. So I began to publicize to my grandmother: this is a superstitious practice and extremely unscientific. Her mouth is flat, her old face seems to have tears in her cloudy eyes. She seems offended. Yes, my relatives and friends don't believe this at ordinary times, and now they don't even believe me as a child. A sincere person will certainly impress the savior! "
I won't argue with my grandmother anymore. Maybe she has a point. "Sincerely, open the door with one stone." The old man meant no harm. Prayer became her comfort, her pillar and her sustenance!
Recalling these, I remembered palm seed sent by my grandmother from her mother the other day. The fragrance that wafts from time to time makes me cry. So, I couldn't help singing a poem:
Grandma made zongzi herself,
Travel thousands of miles,
Fall on my dining table;
A wisp of fragrance,
Full of love.
I opened the zongzi,
Seeing the ripe and fragrant rice grains,
Flashing with the expectations of relatives;
A feeling of sadness choked my heart.
I munched on zongzi,
Two lines of tears,
Burn one's hands ...
A friend is someone who shares happiness with you when you are happy. It is when you are happy that happiness is doubled; When you encounter difficulties, you will break them down; Is to help you get rid of it when you are lonely; Someone who encourages you when you are down and out.
Friends are people that everyone wants to have and become. To make everyone friends and consolidate the relationship between friends, we need something called friendship to water them.
As for friends, we attach great importance to them in China. Traditional Confucianism attaches great importance to them, and puts forward that honesty, benevolence and righteousness have always influenced us, penetrated into our lives, influenced our behavior, and become the principle of making friends. A series of stories, such as "Looking for a bosom friend through a mountain and flowing water" and "Flying over the eaves and walking on the wall far away from Qian Shan, making a cup in your hand", are all profound manifestations of friendship.
"Depend on parents at home and friends when going out", this sentence shows the importance of friends, and shows that the role of friends lies in mutual dependence, as well as mutual dependence. It is not the kind of behavior that blooms evil flowers in the name of friends and irrigates them with friendship for personal gain. The difference between the former and the latter lies in: the former depends on each other and helps each other, especially when friends are in trouble, relying on each other, encouraging each other and helping each other to get out of trouble together; The latter "watered" friendship when friends were behind the horse in the spring breeze; It is wise to protect yourself and abandon your friends when they are in trouble. What's more, they made it worse.
"A friend in need sees the truth, and a friend in need sees the truth", which is also a criterion to judge the authenticity of friendship. It also shows that friendship needs refinement and sublimation. The friendship of calling each other brothers on the wine table and crowding round when things go well is not a real friendship; Giving you advice when you are proud and caring words when you are down and out is true friendship, because it is not flattered by the temptation of fame and fortune, but also verified and sublimated in difficulties.
"A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" means that there should be no requirements for making friends. Only in this way can we be alone and not lonely, and make our life warmer and more comfortable.
In fact, friends who want nothing are rare. You might as well close your eyes and delete those who want something. How many are there? Because true friendship is "nothing to ask for", she should not ask for anything and refuse all contracts. It will always be pure and fragile. Therefore, it is always so easy to be confused and broken. Various books also introduce various ways to prevent friendship from breaking up, but those methods are technical. Once technical means enter the emotional field, there will always be no good results. Friendship needs to be watered with heart and cultivated with life, in order to blossom a brilliant flower of friendship.
Friends are the bottom of the five relationships. In fact, friends are a very important relationship. The so-called friendship is actually a good relationship between people, including understanding, appreciation, trust, tolerance, sacrifice and many other virtues. If friendship is the basis, other relationships such as father and son, husband and wife can be successfully established. Of course, father and son have no choice but to have a permanent relationship. Although couples have a choice, once they are married, they will not get married. Friends can be separated. However, to put it bluntly, father, son, husband and wife and brother are all friends, but their forms and nature are slightly different. Strictly speaking, anyone who has good friends must be a good father, son, husband, wife, brother and brother. or vice versa, Dallas to the auditorium
Our ancient sages attached great importance to making friends. There are many words about making friends in The Analects of Confucius, and so are the western countries. Cicero in Rome has a famous article "On Friendship". Montaigne in France, Bacon in Britain and Emerson in America all have articles about friendship. It seems to me that modern writers are reluctant to spend pen and ink on this topic. Is this a symbol of the decline of tertiary friendship? I dare not say.
The so-called "neck and neck friendship" in ancient times is too high for people to reach. Damon and Pythias, for example, live and die together, which is probably just a fable. Even if the standard of friendship is lowered, it is still very rare to really become friends. Imagine how many friends you can trust if the money is handled. How many friends are willing to visit you when you are frustrated or sick, or even give timely help? How many people are willing to take care of your weak wife and daughter-in-law when you are not at home, but not too many? To say the least, I have always reciprocated, never against my will. How many people can last longer than failing? If you don't have a special interest in the corner, I'm afraid it's hard not to be a passerby in a few years. Franklin said, "There are three kinds of friends who are the most faithful and reliable-an old wife, an old dog and cash." Curiously, these three friends are not friends. But Aristotle's sentence is the simplest: "My friends! There are no friends in the world. " This sentence borders on cynicism. In fact, there are friends in the world, but although you don't have to look for them with lanterns, it's like panning for gold in the sand, which takes a long time to temper. Once friendship is forged, it will be rock-solid and never look back.
Generally speaking, birds of a feather flock together, so we can always think it is good. Making friends is also about being suitable, not as strict as do Zhong Zheng. Nature has boundaries. "Many students and teenagers are not cheap, and Wuling's horses are light and fat." Besides "being light and fat", can we swim to the old times without looking at the eyebrows? Han Guangwu allowed Yan Ziling to press his thigh on his stomach, which was generous, but it was especially wise for Yan Ziling to resolutely retreat to Fuchun Mountain. Zhu Hongwu wrote a letter to one of his friends, saying, "When Zhu Yuanzhang became emperor, Zhu Yuanzhang was still Zhu Yuanzhang ..." The words were beautifully written, and it was hard to avoid heartache when he was later slaughtered. People's physical and mental structure is the same, but after entering the official career. A man without friends is not as good as himself. I think first of all, it only refers to taste, and secondly, it only refers to not making friends worse than yourself, not to say that we must go higher. Friendship needs two things. If both sides want to make friends better than themselves, they will never make friends.
In short, we should not only cultivate correct feelings, because we can have no achievements and never have friends; We need friendship, but we also need to be alert to evil, prevent hypocrisy and oppose betrayal. Let's end with a sentence from Mr. Yu about friendship!
Is it easy to come to this world once?
Is it easy to meet once?
Is it easy to call a friend?
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Learn to cherish and be careful.
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