Before I had children, I concentrated on my work, working overtime and staying up late every day, including weekends. At that time, Mr. Wang said that our home is like a hotel for you. You come back late at night, sleep and leave.
After having children, I pay attention to them. Every day is nothing but work and children. I don't have my own time, and I am busier than before. This state often bothers me, except taking care of my children to grow up every day and complaining more than before. At that time, my husband said that I often wandered around there like a dissatisfied housewife every day, but I couldn't see what I had done.
In 20 17, we moved to a new house, and I felt that my life needed to be re-planned. Before I moved to a new house, I always ate my husband's cooking. I ate it for nearly ten years. Although I didn't mean to blackmail myself with the phrase "If you want to tie a man's heart, you must tie a man's stomach first", there is nothing wrong with being able to cook. After all, children can eat anything when they are older. I think I should learn to be a good mother and wife. So I learned to cook.
I used to cook occasionally, and my mother once commented that "it's a waste of ingredients". However, many things happen. I study recipes carefully and practice more from simple things, and the effect is really good. Father and daughter, who never eat eggplant, ate my steamed eggplant last weekend and were full of praise. One small detail is that I gave my daughter a bite of eggplant and another bite of other dishes. The daughter said, I want that again! My heart melted at once, and I will continue to cook hard in the future, full of sense of accomplishment!
In order to let the baby eat healthy sweets, I also learned to make cakes, squeeze fresh juice and make puddings.
20 17 learned for the first time that there is an APP and a course called online course, and some knowledge has to be paid.
So, I started reading books recommended by everyone. I was never interested in history before. I thought it was a thing of the past, so why bring it up? Now I'm actually watching "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty", which is very interesting and easy to understand. There is an invisible force that makes people want to watch it again. I also watched Life and Jane Eyre. I used to read slowly. I couldn't finish a book in a year before, but now I am. I can read two books in three months.
After work, I also reported to the Heart Blue Lead Training Camp to learn painting. Others are chasing the drama, and I am drawing; While others are playing games, I am drawing; I was drawing while others were shopping online. Therefore, I also saved a lot of money, because I didn't have time to go shopping or shop online. Painting also gained some fans.
After moving to a new home, get up early for half an hour every day, get up and have a cup of warm water to practice calligraphy, and wash and eat after half an hour.
I prepare breakfast for my husband every day, because he was too lazy to eat breakfast before, and his stomach depended on it. Supervise the problem of drinking between the husband and the children. Now children like drinking water, and Mr. Wang likes drinking tea. I'll never see my drink bottle again.
At work, I don't delay any more, and finish my tasks ahead of schedule, which is more efficient than before, because I no longer have two tasks at the same time. In the past, when I watched other people's works, I used to watch TV dramas on my mobile phone and work at the same time, so "near Zhu Zhechi, near Mexico, people are black", and that's what I became. Now, I focus on improving efficiency and quality.
My 20 17 has started a brand-new lifestyle, and I am slowly adjusting my physical and mental state. I believe we will do better on 20 18.
Tolstoy said that "all happy families are similar, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way". In the family, the most important things are love and positive energy. I want to learn to be a woman who gets a kitchen in the hall, so that the family will be happier and happier. Children need love, and husbands certainly need love. Let's join hands to create a better future!