1, comfort each other
In fact, in your heart, your lover is also very wronged, but because of the quarrel, he thinks you are shirking responsibility. So at this time, if you are willing to comfort each other, then you are definitely willing. Of course, the most important thing is to choose a place where you can calm each other down and comfort yourself. For example, the other person may not like sweets very much, so you can spread a charm in front of him and say that you like sweets. Wait a minute? Or you can try to make some candy for each other, or you can make more snacks to make them feel that you really love her. You can tell the other person that you didn't do anything wrong, but you are still sad. You will also worry about whether this man will be more and more cold to you in the future. You can say: I know you are sad, I know you are afraid, but I am really worried about you. Can you see that we really love each other?
Step 2 create romance
I think women will understand romance better and gain men's trust and attention more easily. Learn to coax a man's heart and create romance. For example: buy him a small gift on Valentine's Day; Give him a hug every morning and evening; A cup of hot milk. In short, it is to make a romantic holiday and surprise him. Of course, everyone needs some romance. What if you have romantic cells?
3. Learn what to do after quarreling.
When two people are together, many times, there will always be some contradictions and quarrels. Learn to solve these contradictions and quarrels through communication. It is normal that there will be quarrels in the process of love, but there are always some minor contradictions after quarrels in marriage. In marriage, there will be quarrels from time to time because of some minor contradictions, so after quarreling, you should learn to solve the problem through communication instead of quarreling with each other blindly.
4. Don't be too persistent.
Many women don't know how to coax their lovers, that is, they hide their unhappiness and dissatisfaction in their hearts and like to find various excuses to convince each other. In fact, this method is not desirable. Some lovers will say, "Then don't be so rude every time?" This will make you wonder if the other person really loves you or is lying to you! If you are really determined to break up with him, then you should tell her, "I really shouldn't break up with you this time." Then I quickly said to him, "I'll find a place to talk to you right away." Then tell him it's over.