Basic introduction Chinese name: netizen type: special friend mode: online media platform: QQ, MSN, WeChat and other dating software classification: chat, exchange study, blind date and other fields: Internet meaning, chat, online dating, production process, what has been said, matters needing attention, definition 1: The so-called netizen refers to people who know or even know each other through a certain online media and meet rarely or only in a certain place. For example, through alumni, QQ chat friends, MSN, Weibo, WeChat, telephone chat friends, blog friends and other dating software. Definition 2: People who get along well with each other online: online friends, online friends, online friends, online friends, online relatives. Definition 3: so-called netizen, network gang: network clique (a group of people who collude with each other for personal gain and exclude dissidents on the Internet). Definition 4: In today's era, some friends who are familiar with each other can't meet often due to various factors, but they can connect with each other through video, chat, SMS and other ways, so they are called netizens. Crowding in the network: live in groups and fly with friends in the network. Chat in this e-era, the so-called chat can be divided into two types. One is chatting online, and the other is communicating with people in real life. Chat now includes voice chat and video chat. First, online chatting is completely casual and does not involve too many ideas. Play your potential as much as possible. Like-minded people are undoubtedly thousands of friends and forget their worries. So there are not too many constraints. Second, when it comes to interpersonal communication. At this point, many factors depend on one's personality tendency. If you want to be a good communicator. Then you must first integrate your personality into the group. Chatting doesn't distinguish between regional cultures. A scholar with extensive academic knowledge, his speech may also be unsatisfactory. As a talkative person, the first thing you have is psychological quality and cheerful personality. As the saying goes, if a worker wants to do a good job, he must sharpen his tools first. In the final analysis, I still say that my personality is cheerful and closed. Of course, as an authority, you certainly don't want to chat with a muddled person, or a conformist. Third, chatting is undoubtedly a speech around a topic. This kind of speech is divided into occasions and groups. Of course, the chat proposed by the landlord is also chatting with friends. First of all, let's put personality aside for the time being. Let's talk about several advantages of a conversationalist: First, we should break the silence. At this time, your words are the center. If you cultivate this habit from time to time, you will like the "focus" that attracts attention. Second, chatting is undoubtedly relaxing. Although happiness and sadness can be topics. But I don't think anyone will spend their leisure time listening to your tears. Here you can choose to tell a little joke or a little story. Don't scratch, a table full of people's ears will naturally follow you. This is on the dining table. After dinner, this kind of unrealistic jokes may be reduced. You can take yourself as the center and tell things around you in the form of black humor. Remember you don't have to laugh. A person who is good at telling jokes can't laugh himself. He should leave the laughter to the audience. Also, chatting with friends often can not only hone your eloquence and quick discrimination, but also make your personality more cheerful. You can choose to start with friends. This friend must be your best friend. Lying in the moonlight, the breeze blowing on your face, the dust of the past ... at that time, even if you wanted to shut up, you couldn't. Fourth, although it's just online chat, although there is a fluorescent screen, we still have to make friends and share happiness in a positive and healthy way! How to chat with netizens? One of the tips: If you can't find a topic, or the other person is talking to several people at the same time, or the other person's typing speed is slow, you can send some pictures to ease the atmosphere and avoid the embarrassment of waiting. Tip 2: You can create a document in which you can store your favorite famous sayings, poems and songs, short messages and quips, or netizens' comments on flowers. When chatting, open this document, the window is set to "restore" state, and copy and paste are used to reduce the pain of repeated entry. On the one hand, it can improve your input speed, on the other hand, it can also improve your chat level. Tip 3: It's best not to use too casual words online. This is the same as interacting with people in life. If you want people to talk to you politely, you should at least pay attention to each other. There is a limit to everything. Of course, online chat is the same! Enough! Friends of online dating, if you think this love is so sweet, this dream is so beautiful, and this trap is so comfortable, then you can stay inside and enjoy the happiness that is hard to enjoy in life, and don't break your dream. Surfing the Internet is a pleasure. Not the internet, but the people in it, the feeling of holding your heart firmly in the internet, the heart that is closely connected with you at the other end of the internet. People who surf the internet feel lonely, not living in loneliness, but having a proud and lonely heart. Loneliness is a common problem of modern people, accompanied by the prosperity of life. Loneliness is a lonely heart that can't be put down. It is also a distant pursuit of happiness. It is almost a sad and profound life, and it is also a young and beautiful life that is unwilling to suppress. People are so strange. In the era of material poverty and poor culture, eating a full meal and listening to a drum book makes me feel extremely satisfied; It is a pleasure to drink a bowl of broth and watch a movie. Never know what emptiness is and what loneliness is. However, in today's material wealth, people are getting more and more lonely, such as "eating chicken and eating meat is inferior" and "the house is bigger, the telephone is smaller, and life is getting better and better". People have desires, and their desires are rising step by step, from material to spiritual. Material needs can be met relatively, but spiritual needs are endless. In the eyes of most parents, online dating rarely has a good result and has always been classified as a derogatory term. Spiritual love can be a sustenance, but it is only a sustenance. After all, people live in the real world. In this process, everyone will have something unhappy/annoying. As a modern person, everyone will go online to find friends to talk about their pain. Some people will look at their online friends more carefully than their real friends, because they can listen to their feelings. On the internet, everyone can be an angel, who can gently soothe people's hearts; You can also be the devil, specializing in harmful things and bringing people pain. Because I am unfamiliar, I can do things completely according to my own ideals, reflect the truth, goodness and beauty of people's hearts, speak my mind at will, tell my unhappiness to netizens, and even vent my declining mood. What you are afraid to say in front of acquaintances can be revealed in front of netizens because you don't know each other. This is the charm of the Internet. Netizens are one of the most boring people in the world. They rely on the internet to engage in bad activities that the real world dare not engage in, and are proud of spoofing. What netizens say may be from the heart, which will make people moved, but don't be tempted, because it is unrealistic! Netizens are limited to chatting, please don't exceed this line. After all, there are only a few people who successfully fall in love, get married and become life partners! Precautions: Internet users meet mainly between men and women. According to the order of invitation to meet, it can be divided into two situations: women actively invite male netizens to meet, and men actively invite female netizens to meet. Different initiatives, different precautions. It is also risky for women to invite male netizens to meet, but it is generally easy to be ignored. At present, the phenomenon of wedding trays, rice trays and wine trays on wedding websites is serious. If a strange woman is very enthusiastic, she hardly knows about it, and even doesn't know on which website the other party saw her information, so she asks for a meeting place. At this time, male netizens need to pay attention. The other party may be a wedding plate, a rice plate or a wine plate. At the time of invitation, female netizens will give priority to normal places, such as MRT station, XX building, XX bank and other places to meet. The male netizen arrived and asked to go to the attachment path again. Male netizens need to pay special attention to meeting in a small road, not in a public place. There are probably cafes, teahouses and other unknown places on the road, and all kinds of rice plates and wine plates are there.