Playing eighty is a card that the four of us often play. When it is intense, it is also the easiest to cause "family conflicts." Tired of playing, I want to go out to eat when it's time for dinner. Lan Zi said, "Let's go to your house to eat. Let's do it ourselves. Better than outside. "
Men will naturally raise their hands in favor. Zilan wants to show his cooking skills, and I'll help Zilan.
"Ipoh, who cooks in your family?" Zilan chatted with me while cooking.
"I am more, he is a better cook than me."
"Be sure to find a man who can cook. Our family, Abiao, is sometimes painful and always the warmest. I have dysmenorrhea, and those days of each month are the hardest. It hurts so much that I can't even get out of bed. I have all kinds of medicines at home. During those three days, my aunt took care of me. "
Listening to Zilan's story, I can naturally imagine what a romantic picture it is: a woman lying in bed after her period, a man making soup for you after work, and he is very handsome in the busy kitchen.
Men who can cook are very attractive. When women need it most, men are willing to cook for their beloved women, considerate and deeply in love.
What Lanzi said reminds me of many things. These two days, I am also having my period. On the first day, the whole person was completely out of pain, and his body was too cold to stop. My boyfriend was so distressed that he ate three meals a day. He cooks and it's delicious.
Actually, we have been together for four years. Many people ask me what love is. I think love means that the person you love is willing to cook a meal and a bowl of porridge for you.
We are online dating. When we first met, he would proudly say that I was very kind to my girlfriend. Any good ideas? Take her to eat delicious food. I'll do whatever you want.
Once I had a bad cold and couldn't eat anything. It's one o'clock in the morning and I'm suddenly hungry. I woke him up and said he was hungry and wanted to eat egg custard. Hearing this, he immediately got up and made me a bowl of egg custard. Every weekend, when he is not at work, what I want to eat naturally comes from his cooking for me.
Good love is to find someone who can accompany you to dinner, and perfect romance is to find someone who can cook for you and have time to accompany you to dinner.
Very rare. After all, loving someone is not just talk, but whether you are willing to take action and really love you. I couldn't cook at all before I met him. I had to take two or three steps back to cover a dish with a pot cover. 13 years, I just stayed with him. It's my first time to cook. I looked at the menu and cooked a big plate of chicken for four hours. He was so happy that he left work before six o'clock. He shouted "Ipoh, open the door for me, I want to eat a large plate of chicken" before entering the room. The meal was so salty that the guy ate it all. The result was tragic. He kept drinking water.
Since then, whenever I meet a friend, he naturally tells me that I can make a big plate of chicken. Damn it, great. My friends all know that I can cook a large plate of chicken and call me virtuous. Actually, that dish really sucks. I didn't eat a bite.
If you love someone, you really want to cook for him. For four years, I have been in the kitchen under the hall. Good love is mutual, you know his hard work, and he knows how to cherish you. In the most dull days, even if you are poor, you will feel very happy.
It's rare to have someone who understands and loves you.
Mao Ge and squirrel used to be our roommates. Mao Ge is good at cooking, a clean Fujian man; Squirrels are beautiful, science and engineering women. She repaired all the broken faucets in the house. Squirrels can't cook, and they are best at cooking. Mao Ge is amazing. He can do anything. He is a complete cook.
In the days of living together, what we like best is to hear Mao Ge knock on the door at the weekend and say "OK, let's have dinner later", and then my boyfriend and I have the cheek to have dinner.
Mao Ge works in Zhangzhou and lives separately from squirrels, but she comes back every weekend. When Mao Ge is away, squirrels can rub against us or cook some vegetables by themselves.
How do you spoil your woman? Once, the squirrel got sick and called Mao Ge back. When it rained, Mao Ge drove back at once and made porridge for the squirrel. On non-weekend days, squirrels will bark and people will come. "Our squirrel is sick and has come back." At six o'clock the next morning, before dawn, Mao Ge drove back to work in Zhangzhou.
Where can you really see that a man loves you? Some women are stupid and say that men are good to themselves, but she can't figure out what to say.
People who really love you don't just pay lip service;
The person who really loves you, you say it, he is around;
People who really love you will cook a big dinner for you when you need it.
what is love ? Love or not is expressed through actions. I either bought the so-called luxury goods, or I couldn't put it down; Those who can't afford luxury goods will give you a shoulder to lean on when you need it; Those men who are willing to cook for you will cook a loving meal for you. These are all love, but also the most rare.
Mother often tells us, "Look how happy your aunt is, and your little uncle is very capable." Aunt is really a very happy woman. In our place, men never go into the kitchen.
My father can't cook and is lazy. It's good enough to help make a fire. Since ancient times, it has been "women are outside the house, men are inside." There are women cooking in this family, and men are waiting for dinner. However, is this actually the case? A really good marriage is that your husband knows how to cherish you and help you share the housework. If you don't feel well, I can take good care of you.
Aunt and uncle are such a loving couple. My uncle has a good temper and my aunt is very noisy; My aunt always shouts loudly, but my uncle comes over anyway. My aunt used to call my uncle's name when I lived in their house during the summer vacation. If my aunt says housework twice and my uncle doesn't move, she will get angry immediately. "What do you want to do?" Facing the angry aunt, my uncle still smiled and joked. "It's up to you, I won't go." She went to work at once. When menstruation goes to play cards, my uncle will take the initiative to take the responsibility of cooking. After all, there are always people at home who want to cook, so how can they go out to eat?
We all envy couples who take care of each other, but the real perfect marriage is mutual understanding. Living is nothing more than daily necessities, and it is normal to have contradictions. Two completely temperamental people insist on living together, and both sides should understand each other.
A good marriage life is not a blind effort by one party, nor is it what men say, "marry a good wife to live." With her around, she naturally does nothing. Good love and marriage must be two-way, and any unilateral efforts will not be too long and too happy.
As we all know, it is virtuous to marry a wife. A good wife will naturally keep the house bright. But a good wife is not just a housewife. What kind of life a married woman can have can generally be seen from her married husband.
In others' eyes, Xiao Mo and her husband are a good couple. Her husband comes from a superior family, and Xiao Mo is a teacher. As we all know, there is a kind of woman who is easy to marry. Who is the teacher? Marry a teacher, be financially independent, take care of the family, take a long vacation and help with the children.
But this is not the case. From the beginning, you prayed for others. Thank you. You are not going to marry a wife, but a nanny. In this case, just find someone casually and save trouble. Anyway, your purpose is to let her give birth to your children and take care of your family.
This is not a good marriage at all. What can a seemingly superior family do with several houses in Xiamen? Your husband can't understand you mentally, and this purpose is not simple from the beginning. Xiao Mo, too, married life as long as a busy work, not cooking, her husband simply can't stand it. Xiao Mo has something to do at school, and he must continue to study during the holidays. My husband has no idea. Her husband said that I married you because you could take care of your family. That's great. You are not at home for two days a day. Over time, their relationship broke down and ended in divorce.
Why can't such a marriage go on at all? Obviously, there is no spiritual resonance between husband and wife, and men will not be considerate of their wives. If the wife doesn't have time to cook, she doesn't have to go into battle by herself. She has to wait for her to cook and take care of the family.
If you can't take care of yourself, marry a nanny. You are not looking for someone who will really accompany you for the rest of your life. A man who really loves you will cook for you and give you a shoulder to lean on when you need it. Those who keep saying that they love you should keep their eyes open. Maybe they are looking for a housewife.
Good love and marriage, both sides have to pay. This is true for women, especially for men. Find a man who is willing to cook for you and share housework for you. Such a man will really cherish you and will naturally take care of you.
Love and marriage need two people to run, and it is never a matter of one person.
A thoughtful housewife. Wechat official account: Liming ID: yibao 8690