Learning to be kind to others is to be kind to yourself

When a life comes to the world, it is destined to deal with many people. The emotions between people are simple and complex. , the key to simplicity and complexity may lie in the way people get along with each other! In life, some people live a happy life, while some people live a very tired life... This may be because he neglects to treat others well or It is important to treat yourself well, and I am such a person...

I am a person who has very high demands on myself. I want to achieve perfection in everything. Once I take over many things, I am not willing to give up halfway. , the expectations for myself are always more than what I can bear, and this always creates a lot of inexplicable troubles. So I am a person who doesn’t know how to treat myself well. Many friends have told me that as a girl, I am too Being strong will be very tiring, but I always say with a smile that I have my principles, I know what I am doing, and I don’t like being too weak. In fact, I am also afraid in my heart, I am afraid that I am not good enough. I say wrong things and offend people. Sometimes I do something very hard, but what I get in the end is others’ malicious smiles, or disgust or indifference. But I can only laugh it off... because no one I ask you to do that. The reason why you do it is your own choice. If you don't do it well, it can only mean that your abilities still need to be exercised... During this period of time, I have been really tired. Maybe I am not good at myself. You should really learn to be kind to yourself!

I personally think that learning to be kind to yourself is a prerequisite for being qualified to treat others well, because if you don’t know how to be kind to yourself, then you will slowly become very depressed. This emotion directly affects everyone's work, study and life, and even their life choices. Therefore, building a harmonious society must be based on building harmonious interpersonal relationships, making the society full of warmth and the world full of love. We must be people-oriented, start with ourselves, and be kind to others.

During these days in college, I feel that after we learn to be kind to ourselves, first of all, we must be kind to our parents. Parents are the foundation of our lives. They are our first teachers in life. For the growth and success of their children, parents work hard, not only teaching us how to speak, but also how to behave. They hope that each of us will become useful, and they devote themselves to us. It is difficult to measure how much energy and effort you put into using numbers. Being kind to your parents means respecting them, sincerely accepting their opinions, and not forgetting to take more time to call home during the busy school journey to make their lives more enjoyable. Fulfillment, joy and happiness. I think this is the best reward for the upbringing of our parents who have provided for us all our lives. Only in this way can we treat ourselves with a clear conscience and live happily.

We must be kind to our friends. Friends are our fellow travelers in life, study or work. We all come together for the same interests. There may be cognitive gaps in things due to different experiences, but It will not affect our friendship at all. When we are three people, there must be a teacher. We must be good at discovering the strengths and shining points in our friends, constantly absorb nutrients, learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses, and improve our communication with each other. Our friendship will definitely become more normal. New and eternal youth.

Learn to be tolerant, and be open to all rivers. Tolerance is great. Learn to tolerate different opinions, unify different understandings, be good at turning big differences into common ground, seek common ground while reserving small differences, unite as one, and coordinate Let’s work together to create a brilliant future for our career. Learn to be kind to yourself, because human life is too short, and no one cares about yourself more than yourself. Learn to be kind to others, because we may not meet again in the next life...