What they can easily get is within their ability, which is just a common thing for them. No matter how well they do, they have no sense of accomplishment. Even if it can make them happy, it will only last for three minutes and will soon be forgotten. For example, you read a lot of recipes, asked a lot of chefs, and then cooked a dish yourself. Although it is not particularly delicious, you like it so much that it is even memorable. On the contrary, if you go to a fancy restaurant, you may not even remember where that restaurant is next time.
The so-called concealment is to give him a sense of mystery. Don't reveal too much as soon as you come up. It's like tasting a good glass of red wine. You have to take your time to leave a fragrance. Let him explore, understand and see through, in fact, this is also a temptation. If he is really, sincerely to you, he will be patient in the process of getting to know you, such as drinking honey juice. Every day, I secretly enjoy knowing you one after another.
The so-called erratic, not homeless! It is to let you find a place different from others in your life at two o'clock and one line every day. For example, you used to play games after work every day or stay at home. Well, from now on, you may have to get rid of that boring life. Think about it, someone who has been with you for a week and knows what you are doing at some time every day is more interested in you. Or people who have been with you for half a year, but still want to call to confirm where you are, will they be more interested in you?