According to folklore, when there is marriage, childbirth or death in the world, the Queen Mother will sprinkle wedding wine to express her congratulations, so there is a folk proverb "Marriage, childbirth, heaven, and the Queen Mother will also help". This proverb tells three happy events in life. Even the wife of the Jade Emperor was happy to see them. How can mankind not drink the wedding banquet? What is a "wedding banquet"? In this case, the wine you drink is the wedding banquet. A person's life is full of wine, because you always have to be born and always get married. This link is always accompanied by wine. Wedding reception is an ancient custom. First, people have a marriage relationship, then they have wine, so they have a wedding banquet. A happy marriage is the greatest happiness in life, and wine makes this happiness stronger, which is the meaning of a wedding reception. The old ancestors' imagination is really rich, and they mix beautiful marriage with fine wine to ensure that they will be happy forever from generation to generation.
Marriage is a necessary experience for everyone, and the wedding banquet is the embodiment of the joy of every family. Therefore, when people get married in China, they always have a big banquet to show their joy. City people hold wedding banquets in big hotels and restaurants. They prefer to spend more money to celebrate with good wine, good food and good environment. Rural people hold wedding banquets and set dozens of tables along the street. No matter how many people attend the wedding banquet, the wedding banquet is guaranteed to be well managed. The wedding banquet of the rich has the ostentation and extravagance of the rich, such as serving the best wine such as Maotai and Wuliangye, and choosing the best local hotel, which embodies the ostentation and extravagance. The wedding banquet of the poor has the attention of the poor. It doesn't matter whether the wine is good or bad. The important thing is to show happiness. Yunnan-Guizhou area has been poor since ancient times, and people have created their own wedding banquets, which last for several days. Passers-by and strangers can also enter the banquet. "Running seats" means a beautiful life as long as running water.
At the wedding reception, the bride and groom must propose a toast to the old people on both sides, which means that the children repay the kindness of raising, that a new family is born, and that the blood of the family has been ignited, which is the content for the old people to live a good life. Therefore, there is a folk saying that "when you marry a daughter-in-law and have a daughter, you are often drunk by your parents."
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No matter how far apart countries are, newlyweds have the habit of toasting guests at wedding banquets. A couple put happiness into a glass and respected each other, even their children. What we share is not wine, but a beautiful life. People who drink it are very happy. People who are invited to hold a "wedding banquet" will not refuse unless there are special circumstances. One is that people are overjoyed and hope that relatives, friends, neighbors and even colleagues will entertain them. Secondly, it is in line with the general psychology of China people to have a few glasses of wedding wine and pray for peace at the wedding banquet.
At wedding banquets, people often get drunk, because the wine of life is too mellow and strong, and the wine is not intoxicating. Don't say, "The more bachelors drink wedding banquets, the sadder they get." After "sadness", he may work hard, and a good life will inspire everyone.