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Why can't the person I love be with me!
I recently read Wu Zhihong's book. Why does the family hurt people? I am very touched. The content in the book can answer this question well. Just sort out the books I have read according to this question.

The book says that when we are in love, we are still branded with childhood, and we will be hurt more or less in childhood, so the lover we hope to find is actually based on our ideal parents.

This book tells the story of a boy. Let's call him Xiao Wang. His family was poor when he was a child. His father left early, and his mother kept changing boyfriends. When he 10 was in his teens, his mother had an accident on the way to date together.

Xiao Wang hates his mother, but deep down he wants her love and lacks it.

Later, I met Jing, who was very kind to him, cooking and cleaning for her. Xiao Wang felt her mother's warmth and special happiness in Jing, and they were together.

But after a while, the tragedy happened, and Xiao Wang began to dislike Jing constantly, sarcastically criticizing her ugliness, saying that she was not good enough, and she was not allowed to have any contact with other boys. In fact, if we use the idea to analyze, it is that after he and Jing are together, he feels the warmth of Jing, but after a long time, he regards Jing as his mother and retaliates against Jing's hatred for his mother. Because mother always changes boyfriends, Xiao Wang is particularly worried that Jing will go outside to find other men, so she is forbidden to associate with other men outside.

At first, Jing could bear Wang's willfulness, but after a long time, he couldn't bear it any longer, and finally chose to leave Wang.

Such a story explains why the person I love can't stay with me all the time, because when we are with the person we love, we become children, hoping that the other person can treat ourselves like parents, but some children are bad, they have too many bad habits, and the lovers around them are not real parents at all, so they are likely to leave because they can't stand it.

Love should be beautiful. First of all, you should know that you are an independent individual, and the other party is also an independent individual. Only in this way can we get out of childhood and become a truly happy person.

I am Mohua, your best friend in love, and I will accompany you to love.