Both men and women negotiate and hold it by themselves, which is generally proposed by the man to the woman. With the consent of both parents, it will be held by the man in the woman's house. This way is suitable for free love.

Exchange information and make an appointment through the matchmaker, and after obtaining the consent of the woman's parents, the man will hold it at the woman's home. Engagement gifts are all prepared by the man. Gifts include wine, cigarettes, sugar, tea, meat, chicken, fish and so on. Except meat, engagement gifts should be even and avoid singular.

2. engagement party

The woman's parents are seated, followed by the man's parents, and the others are seated in turn according to their seniority. Then, the matchmaker or host announces the engagement ceremony. First, they briefly introduced a couple's congeniality and their family's support and satisfaction with their children's marriage, and then they said some congratulations. Later, they announced that the man would wear an engagement ring for the woman, and then they exchanged engagement tokens. From then on, a pair of lovers can call each other's parents "father" and "mother".

3. Banquet

Besides toasting each other, people here have a good chat and the atmosphere is intimate and harmonious. After the banquet, before the man leaves, the woman needs to return the gift to the man. In other words, a small part of the gifts brought by the man is returned to the man, and the cash is returned, but the gold and silver ornaments are not returned.

Extended data

Matters needing attention in engagement:

1, select the location

Choose to meet at home and feel like a guest, with one party as the main and the other as the guest. Of course, it will be more intimate when dining, and there will be no interference from outsiders when talking. It is a very private place. Restaurants For social places like restaurants, it is recommended to choose private rooms that are convenient for conversation.

2. Cosmetic dressing

Men should not wear long hair shawls or scruffy beards. The most important thing is to leave a sense of security for the other parents, so that they can trust their daughter to such a man. Then, you have succeeded more than half. Men should pay more attention to details, and their nails must be clean and free from dirt. Leather shoes must be polished.

Girls' long hair shawls are kind and touching, attention to detail, perfect and dignified, giving people an extra impression. For example, nails should not be painted with too many colors and makeup should not be too thick. You can appropriately put on some light makeup that shows your spirit. Don't dress too ostentatiously or exposed.