Today we are going to tell a story about filial piety. The ancients said, "Can you have a warm seat at the age of nine?" This is what we think of as filial piety. When the hero of this incident was only four years old, he took on the burden of the family, taking care of his paralyzed father, feeding him, washing his clothes and massaging him with urine. At that time, many people cried after the news report came out.
Now, two years later, how is their life? Let's take a look.
Event details
July 20 18, a report on the program "Very Wenshan" touched countless people. In the report, a four-year-old boy brought water to feed his father, massaged and chatted, and was good at washing and cooking. The little boy's name is Shen Haoyu. His family lives in Binglie Township, wenshan city, and his father's name is Shen. A year after they got married and gave birth to Xiao Haoyu, the couple divorced. Grandpa died, grandma remarried, and only father and son lived alone.
If it hadn't been for the accident, Xiao Haoyu would have grown up as happily as most children. However, something unexpected happened. 20 18, Shen accidentally fell, resulting in paraplegia of cervical spine fracture, and life was completely unable to take care of himself. Xiao Haoyu, who was only four years old at that time, was forced to bear the heavy burden of life and stay in front of the hospital bed every day to take care of his father.
At the age of four, when other children were playing carefree, Xiao Haoyu had become the pillar of the family. He washes and cooks and takes care of his father every day. He supported the family with tender shoulders. In the news interview, Xiao Haoyu proudly said that he can do many things.
Give them a helping hand and help them out of trouble.
From July, 2065438 to July, 2008, after the news report about the Shen family was broadcast, people from all walks of life came out to help them out. For example, caring people from all walks of life raised hundreds of thousands of yuan to help Shen pay for hospitalization and medical expenses; After learning that their father and son had no room, the local government quickly helped them solve the housing problem. Moreover, Shen He and his son have nearly two thousand months of subsidies every month.
Shen said: "At that time, the assistance from all walks of life made me regain my confidence in life in despair." We can imagine a person's inner despair when he learned that he was paralyzed, and we can also imagine that his father was taken care of by Shen Haoyu, who was only four years old at that time. Thanks to the help of caring people from all walks of life, their life can have hope, and their father and son walk out of the predicament and face life directly.
Shen said: "I often educate my son to be grateful." There are also a group of helpful friends and neighbors around. Friends help him pick up Xiao Haoyu from school every day; Neighbors sometimes help their father and son buy food, send them meals, help Xiao Haoyu wash clothes, quilt cover and so on. The residents in the community also take care of them, and Shen said that the two of them will never forget these kindness.
A little boy supports a family.
Since two years ago, Xiao Haoyu has been the pillar of this family. Although young, he has been doing housework under the guidance of his father.
What were you doing when you were six? I'm afraid I'll act like a spoiled brat in my parents' arms and laugh with their love, just like most children. But at this age, Xiao Haoyu has begun to take on family responsibilities and take care of himself and his father. I believe everyone will be moved by Haoyu's filial piety and feel sorry for him. Haoyu's father was distressed to see his capable son, but there was nothing he could do. Xiao Haoyu must learn to be independent, because others can help you for a while and no one can help you for a lifetime.
Haoyu washes clothes, cooks, cleans the room, changes diapers and massages his father every day after school. Because there is no money for nursing, Shen's daily nursing work is also done by Xiao Haoyu. Xiao Haoyu said that the hardest work every day is the process of moving his father from bed to wheelchair, because he is too young and has no strength, and needs tacit cooperation between father and son.
Neighbors sometimes help them buy food and cook, help them wash clothes, and help them a lot in life. Neighbors said that they were sympathetic to their father and son, especially when the child was so young and had to work so hard, so they tried their best to help. Community residents often help the father and son. When Shen sells toilet paper, he also calls on everyone to buy it, hoping to increase their income and help them reduce some pressure in life.
The hope of life is coming.
With the help of people from all walks of life, their father and son's life is gradually on the right track. For a child, learning is undoubtedly very important, and knowledge can change fate. Through learning, children can also distinguish right from wrong and explore the truth. On May 1 2020, when interviewed by the media, Shen told reporters that his son Xiao Haoyu entered the north campus of wenshan city Experimental Primary School last September. Hearing this news, I am really happy for Xiao Haoyu.
Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds have a great influence on their children. Shen said: "I often educate children, you should know how to be grateful and study hard." He understands that you can't wait for others to help you with everything, but you still have to work hard. In the face of misfortune, he did not give up on himself, but actively accepted treatment and faced life optimistically. Although I am distressed that my son has to work so hard at a young age, I still have to rely on my own efforts to educate my children. He can't move, just lie on the bed and guide Xiao Haoyu to do all kinds of housework.
Despite his misfortune, Shen always faces life positively and optimistically. Members of the local caring group sent Shen's medical records and illness to Du Ning, an orthopedic expert. After careful study, Dr. Du said that after rehabilitation treatment, there is great hope that the upper limbs will recover their self-care ability. With the help of caring people, Shen is now actively recovering, hoping to recover soon.
The experience of Shen and his son is unfortunate, but life is like this. We never know what will happen in the next second, but life will go on. No matter what you have experienced, don't give up hope. Stick to it and the future will be beautiful.
Some people say that there is no dutiful son before a long bed. I disagree with this sentence. Children as young as four are willing to take care of their father who is paralyzed in bed, let alone adults. I believe that "filial piety" will always be in people's hearts. Finally, I wish Shen an early recovery and hope that the life of father and son can get better and better.