But when we meet for the first time, we have no emotional foundation or understanding foundation. It is difficult to know what kind of person and personality the other person is, and whether it is suitable for you and yourself.
If you ask questions blindly, it will only make people feel uncomfortable and even cause the other person's disgust.
So, how can we get to the point quickly and understand what kind of person he is?
First, look at the direction of eye movement.
It is undeniable that the eyes are the windows to the soul. So observe each other's eyes, don't stare all the time, be good at observing.
If the eyeball habitually turns to the right, then he is partial to reason, and his work is mostly in the computer and IT industries. I have a strong defensive mentality in my contact with women.
If you habitually turn left, then this man is more emotional and likes classics and music. Liberal arts is good, don't drink.
Secondly, pay attention to the bag that the man takes.
Men and women have completely different principles in their bags. Women only need one principle: to look good, and a man's bag is a symbol of status and a practical tool.
If it is a bag with many pockets, I like to put things neatly. Generally speaking, I am serious, even a little nervous and curious.
If the bag is locked, this kind of person likes to stand out from the crowd and will be difficult to get close to. Even if he treats his lover, you and I will be clearly separated because of his low sense of security in feelings.
In fact, it can also be used as your reference. You can observe his wallet when you check out. People who treat money correctly will not treat their feelings badly. A neat wallet shows that you are more self-disciplined and can grasp the rhythm of life. If it is a luxury brand's wallet, it means that people in the world are a little wasteful, but they will still have investment awareness. If it is neat and advanced, it is suitable for in-depth communication. Those who knead money into a ball and put it in their trouser pockets often escape from reality because they are afraid of sorting out their property, and their property estimation is limited.
Finally, listen to the sound.
The voice sounds younger than the actual age, which proves that he is energetic, likes sports and is positive and enthusiastic. Speaking fast means that you are eager to socialize and will take the initiative to socialize. The tone is obviously ups and downs, which proves to be more emotional and even a little feminine.