As far as I know, the economy of Linyou Zhangba is not particularly good, and it is estimated that 10000 will not come down! Is marriage a convention? Pay attention to marriage proposal, engagement, and then hold a ceremony. As long as you bring it up, there will naturally be elders to show you how to do it!
Make an estimate mainly according to your financial strength. Excluding the bride price and gift money for the bride's family, you can have a decent wedding (including car rental, camera shooting, wedding reception, etc. ) If you have money, buy an affordable one if you don't. If the girlfriend's family is more accommodating, 30,000-50,000 yuan can be done!