We can easily find that in fact, in the workplace, many people are modest and hypocritical. Some people seem to be very kind to you, but in fact they will give you a lot of tricks behind your back. If in this case, you still think he cares about you, then it really turns out that someone else has sold you and you are still counting money for others.

Therefore, in the workplace, it is very important to be able to correctly distinguish between true and false and care. I think the easiest way is to see if he cares about you when you really need it. Nowadays, people often say that this is a timely help, and you are not icing on the cake. Who are you? A person who really cares about you will stand up when you are in trouble, not flatter you when you are proud.

Therefore, by observing the time node of the person you care about, you can see whether this person's concern for you is true or false. I really hate people who are around when they are proud, but stay away when they really need them. Such people are definitely not true friends.

Distinguish between true and false in the office, and care can also be distinguished by knowing or not knowing. People who really care about you will not show their concern too clearly. They will do something for you silently, such as sorting out your papers privately when you are busy, or boiling water in advance before you enter the office.

Under normal circumstances, you won't notice such concern, but slowly you will find this person's goodness. There are people who lick it as soon as they come up, so people can only give you false concern, because they will show their concern too obviously and deliberately.