1. In the era of equal rights between men and women, female compatriots can speak for themselves and reject male chauvinism.
In my grandmother's time, a woman's main task was to teach her husband and children, walk around the kitchen, husband and children every day, and occasionally bear her mother-in-law's eyes. Grandma said that women at that time had no dignity, so she was always particularly interested in our academic performance. If grandma was born in this era, I firmly believe that she must be a very great woman. Although she is over 70 years old, she can accept new things quickly and is interested in many things we have now. She once said: If love and bread can't have both, then choose bread. Only when people are alive can they have the right to fight for love. ? So girls must not wronged themselves.
2. The best love is that both parties become excellent together, instead of trying to control each other's life and their own thoughts.
In fact, there are many girls around me who love to use their brains. After falling in love, they often change their mood because of their boyfriends' joys and sorrows. Love is more important to them than anything else, and even turned against their parents, and they embarked on a road of love first. Finally, they all became housewives. In their twenties, they were overwhelmed by housework. Obviously, she can be a better self.
My mother once said to me and my sister: Because a mother is selfish to her daughter, I don't want you to live for love, at least you shouldn't lose your personality and quality for love. ? I always remember this sentence, and I will ride the wind and waves with my mother's best wishes.