There is only one way to become a boss's confidant, that is, as the saying goes, "Being an official, knowing the character of an official." In other words, when wage earners decide which boss to follow, they must immediately have a comprehensive understanding of the boss's personality. After getting to know the boss's sexual partner, we should see which aspect of our personality can best cooperate with the boss and from which aspect we should develop, so that the feelings and relations between subject and object can be further harmonious. There is an important principle to keep in mind to cooperate with the boss's hobby, that is, it can't be done if you completely wronged your own personality. In other words, if your boss likes to play golf, but you don't like the sport very much, don't look at your own difficulties, because forced performance will definitely be insincere and unnatural, and it will cause some embarrassing scenes.