0 1. Allow your husband to gossip about you. Your husband's attitude towards you directly determines the attitude of your husband's family. Your husband cares about your feelings very much and won't easily accuse you and nag you in front of everyone. Naturally, the husband's family dare not yell at you or find fault with you. If your husband often points at you and speaks ill of you in front of others, your husband's family will not treat you much better. In the eyes of others, the closest person treats you like this, and the subconscious will feel that the problem lies with you, not others. Never overestimate human nature, and don't think everyone is so noble. Don't think that everyone will see the essence through the surface. It is the practice of most people to follow suit. If a woman wants her husband to respect you, she can't allow her husband to disrespect you.
It is good to allow others to bully you. Women are kind and kind, but there must be a sharp edge behind every kindness, otherwise your kindness will become your weakness. A kind-hearted person is easy to talk, considerate of others, and will try his best to meet their demands. But don't force yourself to accept. Because there is such a person in the world who is afraid of bullying the weak and pushes his luck more and more. This is a typical bullying, and there are many such people around. Once a woman's kindness is used by such people, she is always on call. Even if the problem is difficult, she will accept it with tears, thinking that she has helped others, but she is actually hurting herself. In the long run, your personality will be known to everyone. People who know you are very good and won't embarrass you, but there are too few such people. Everyone around you is from have it both ways. Can it be understood by the in-laws Difficult, really difficult. Therefore, refuse when it is time to refuse. Don't be embarrassed. Your kindness is only given to those who deserve it. Don't let some little people take advantage of your kindness.
03. Allow yourself not to make progress and indulge yourself. There is an old saying that marriage is a woman's second reincarnation. Choose the right marriage and suffer less. There is some truth in this statement, but many women often misunderstand it. I think, if I find a good husband's family, everything will be smooth and I can do whatever I want from now on. Anyway, my husband gave me a big umbrella. In fact, the so-called reincarnation is right, which makes your road go smoother and less bad people and things. Doesn't mean you don't have to go this way. How to go or how to go. If you have a job, you still have to go to work, earn an income and give yourself a respect. People without jobs should also learn to take care of their families, take good care of their children, help with their homework and do their part for this family. In this way, life will get better and better. But if you get married, you will feel that everything is complete. You have a husband to earn money, children to worry about, shopping all day, and a lot of money at home. If you are a low-income family, this kind of life will not last long, and it will become less and less popular with your husband's family. If a woman allows herself to be lazy, she can't blame her husband's family for not respecting you. Youyou Message: How is married life? There is a high probability, it still depends on yourself. What you do to yourself, others will do to you. Every woman should have her own principles and bottom line in marriage, and don't let others break it. There is still a long way ahead. Make some goals and plans for yourself Life is not only sweet, you can't always rely on others to give you a sense of security. In the end, you have to rely on yourself. I hope that in the future life, you will get along with your husband's family on an equal footing, respect the former, pay but not listen, and be responsible for your marriage and future.