1. The baby is not our center, not that we adapt to him, but that he adapts to us. Many people think that after the baby is born, the whole family will be around him, hugging each other in turn, afraid to go out, afraid to go shopping and afraid to travel. But I want to say that babies are not the key protected animals, so we don't need to exaggerate.
I care about my baby wherever I go. He reads or plays while I eat. My baby is over one year old now, and he should have taken hundreds of trains, because I will often take him out to play in the surrounding cities, back to my parents' home, back to my husband's home and so on. If I want to go shopping, he will sit in the stroller and go shopping together. Anyway, I can do whatever I want, and I have never felt completely imprisoned because of the baby.
If you can't go out for candlelight dinner, eat well at home. When I am in love, I am romantic in hotels and restaurants outside, and I am going to live at home after marriage, so if I eat at home, I am not vague. Usually study recipes, plates, chopsticks, cups, etc. When I have time, I carefully select each one. I have always thought that good-looking tableware will make people pleasing to the eye and increase their appetite. Putting it on the plate is a bit empty in my husband's eyes, but I think my appetite comes from selling pictures.
3. Insert some flowers at home occasionally. Flowers will add vitality to the home and make the whole house full of fragrance. I have the habit of arranging flowers occasionally, and I will give this task to my husband. Tell him that just like sending me flowers, he is responsible for buying goods from the flower shop. This kind of interaction will really make the sweetness of monotonous marriage soar. He tried to get on the elevator with a bunch of flowers several times, but his neighbors teased him that the old lady was still so romantic.
4. You must date on weekends. My husband and I have an agreement, that is, we must date like falling in love on weekends and go out to run the road. At this time, we will take our baby with us as a way to show him the world. Sometimes I go to the movies. Some people say that the stereo in the cinema is too loud for the baby, so I have been covering his ears. Although it will be very tired, I think such a normal date really won't make marriage life too boring!
Husband must kiss before going out to work. Many times he went to work, and I was still putting the baby to sleep. He just wants to kiss our foreheads. Occasionally, when I wake up in a daze, he will smile and kiss us. This is married life, and we can't ignore these sweet little details because of marriage.
If the sweetness of couples is getting less and less, you can try to ease it with the little details above!