But Kiki's mother-in-law doesn't think so. Her cognition is: "It is her own business for a daughter-in-law to have children. Why should I wait on her for confinement? "
Therefore, when her son married Kiki, she made it clear that she would not take care of her daughter-in-law's confinement in the future, let alone help take care of the children and let Kiki find her own way.
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At that time, Kiki was immersed in sweet love and did not care about her mother-in-law's words. She thought her mother-in-law was just talking about an old man who didn't like having children and would really have children in the future. Can my mother-in-law not help when she sees her grandchildren?
Two years later, Kiki became pregnant and had a great reaction during pregnancy. Kiki's husband often travels on business and can't take care of her, so he calls his mother to take care of Kiki. However, the mother-in-law explicitly refused. Her reason is that "the village is used to living and is not suitable for life in the city." I was still working in the fields when I was pregnant with you. Your wife is just too arrogant. "
Hung up the phone, he was afraid that Kiki would be angry and didn't dare to tell Kiki the truth. He only said that his mother was not used to city life and would come and take care of her when she was going to have a baby.
Kiki is not a delicate person either. When her husband is not around, she cooks and takes care of herself. She silently endured the pregnancy reaction and was about to give birth in the blink of an eye.
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Kiki's sister-in-law just gave birth to a baby, and Kiki's mother couldn't take care of her, so she took the initiative to find her husband and let her mother-in-law take care of herself, even if she was given money.
As a result, the mother-in-law said to her son, "Son, do you want to make your mother sad?" Why do you want me to look after your daughter-in-law? Take care of her own children, I won't wait on her! "
Don't say that Kiki is confused about her mother-in-law's behavior, even Kiki's husband is confused. Isn't Kiki's child also his child? Isn't it her own grandson? He said directly to his mother, "Mom, what do you think? Her children are mine, too. Didn't you take care of her and help me reduce my burden? "
"If this is your business, of course I am willing to help, but having children is her business, I don't care. I forbade you to marry her from the beginning. You insisted on marrying her. She likes her because of you. She never takes me seriously before and after marriage. Now it's her turn to beg me. Why should I wait on her? "
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Kiki was really wronged by her mother-in-law's words. Kiki knew her mother-in-law was dissatisfied with her before she got married, but she thought she was very filial to her mother-in-law. As a gift for holidays, she usually has a lot of living expenses. Moreover, her mother-in-law's smartphones were all sent by Kiki, and she also asked her husband to install a network cable in her hometown to teach her mother-in-law to surf the Internet. It's just that her mother-in-law is too cold to her. After a long time, she doesn't need to stick her hot face on her cold ass. As a result, I got a word from my mother-in-law and didn't take her seriously.
Seeing that the baby is about to be born, Kiki's husband's paternity leave is only a few days, and she doesn't go to work, and the mortgage has not been paid off, so there is not enough money to hire a nanny. Kiki was so anxious that she could hardly sleep. She decided to call her mother-in-law herself.
"Mom, I'm going to have a baby soon. Can you come to town to take care of my delivery? When I finish my confinement, you can go back if you want. "
"Daughter-in-law, I would have said. I don't have confinement. Having a baby is your own business. Don't look for me. You want someone to wait on you, go to your own mother and let her take care of you. I am not related to you by blood, and I have no obligation to take care of you. "
Mother-in-law's words are like a downpour. Kiki doesn't even know how to respond. When she was still in shock, her mother-in-law had hung up the phone.
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Kiki was really angry, but for the sake of the baby in her belly, she took a deep breath to remind herself not to be angry, not to be angry. After slowing down, Kiki opened a circle of friends in order to distract her attention. As a result, she saw her mother-in-law's new circle of friends as soon as she turned on her mobile phone.
"Is it not to have a baby, why let me wait on you?
As if an angry volcano spewed out from Kiki's internal organs, she immediately commented below: "Don't worry, you will be old one day, and I will let you No Country for Old Men."
At this time, Kiki doesn't care about filial piety. She swore in her heart, if you don't take care of my confinement, don't blame me for not caring for the elderly when you are old and need someone to take care of you.
From an objective point of view, the mother-in-law really has no obligation to take care of her daughter-in-law, and she has no responsibility to help her daughter-in-law take care of her children. Kiki's mother-in-law is not wrong.
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However, is it really her own business for a daughter-in-law to have children? Children are the bearing and hope of every family, not to mention the children born to your daughter-in-law are also your grandchildren and the blood of your family. Why don't you help your son and daughter-in-law when they need you and you have energy? More importantly, do you really need the care of your daughter-in-law when you are old and sick?
Later, Kiki's husband hired a nanny to take care of Kiki. Kiki sat quietly for the next month without arguing with her mother-in-law, but this month's revenge was forged. Mother-in-law Qiqi is in good health now, but I wonder if she will regret it when she is old and weak.
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