Besides, talk about what you like. You can tentatively talk about work, study and hobbies first. Let her talk as much as possible according to what she is interested in. But be careful not to talk too much about your personal problems. Ask her more, and you will have a chance to cater to her and win her favor. If you talk too much yourself, she will find fault more easily. Don't be an icebreaker. You can toast her beauty, say that the food is good, say that your aunt is very nice and kind, say that you are dating your aunt, and so on. Just praise her. People can't help cheering. Let's go through it first.