It is a custom to celebrate the birthday of the deceased, which originated from celebrating the birthdays of people all over the world. For example, in nature, it is a kind of filial piety celebration for ancestors based on family or clan, which is intended to "pursue the future with caution", "remember the past and enrich the future" and add luster to the family.
Although there is no specific time to hold a memorial service, there are many new funerals. For example, grandparents and parents died less than three years ago, and their descendants were not finished, or less than ten years ago, their descendants inherited the property rights, careers and even titles of their elders out of gratitude.
The method of commemorating the birthday of the deceased
1, Flowers as a memorial service: Bring a bunch of flowers that conform to the personality characteristics of the deceased or pick and make a bunch of flowers as a memorial service. Place the flowers in the middle of the grave of the deceased and observe silence for 3 minutes in front of the grave to express your thoughts and commemorate his birthday.
2. Gift commemoration method: customize a model birthday cake, insert candles representing the age of the deceased on the deceased and the deceased, write down the name of the deceased, go to the tomb of the deceased to commemorate the life of the deceased, and sing a birthday song for the deceased in a low voice. After the commemoration, if allowed, burn the model cake to the deceased.
3. Wine: If the deceased still likes to drink some wine, he can also buy some wine that he liked to drink before his death, bring it to the grave, pour three glasses on the grave of the deceased, and then use wine to commemorate the birthday of the deceased.
4. You can also pay homage to the birthday of the deceased from a distance. In this case, on the birthday of the deceased, a memorial platform for the deceased was set up in different places, and related birthday gifts were also placed to commemorate and pay homage to the birthday of the deceased in spirit.