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The bride price includes engagement ring, gift money (also called engagement money), two red envelopes, two red belts and at least two sets of clothes (there must be a cotton-padded jacket, as the saying goes, the mother-in-law's coat will be handed down to the old), and the woman's family should prepare a pair of new shoes for the man (called husband's shoes).
According to different personal economic conditions, the deposit usually ranges from10001~100000 yuan.
Jewelry (3-4 gold: rings, earrings, necklaces, bracelets) should be selected by the bride in advance according to her personal preferences.
It is reasonable to say that cotton-padded jacket and noodles can't be worn, but if you have reasonable and elegant attention, take it to the bottom of the box.
Two red bags and two red belts.
Small six samples include: six pounds of meat (full line), six fish (yellow croaker), six bottles of wine, six pounds of sugar (six boxes are ok), six pounds of vermicelli (tied with red line) and six pounds of snacks (six boxes are ok).
Each of the above items (except meat, as the saying goes, a daughter is the meat on her mother's body, and she is reluctant to give it to others) will generally be returned to the man's house by the woman's house, with two to four copies each.
On the day of engagement, the groom and parents come to the bride's house with a bride price. The bride's house should prepare tea, snacks, fruits or dried fruits for entertainment. It's best to find a third party to preside over the engagement day, preferably someone with experience and good words to adjust the atmosphere. Generally, the man's house will go to the woman's house before noon that day, and everyone will chat. At this time, the bride and groom will change their names to call their parents, offer tea to their parents and change their names. At this time, parents have prepared a red envelope, which is also a small change fee, which will be given to you separately, ranging from 600-2000 yuan according to the economic situation.
The bride should book a hotel with a better grade and environment before family affairs, and invite the man to dinner. After dinner, the man's family will return home before sunset.
When the man leaves the woman's house, the woman should return two copies of each of the six samples sent by the man, except the meat. And give the man a certain deposit.
That's all I know. Different cities in Shaanxi may be different, for reference only.