It's really difficult to take care of the baby alone: 1. It's hard to sleep.

The first three months of the baby are a little difficult. Lactating mothers need to feed in the middle of the night and can't sleep well at night. If the baby has colic or flatulence and keeps crying, Ma Bao will feel uneasy. In addition, there are trivial things such as changing diapers, vomiting, changing sheets and quilts, washing the baby's hair, washing his face and washing his ass.

2. It's hard to eat

Because it is breast-feeding, you need to drink a lot of soup and water. I often wake up hungry in the middle of the night and need to eat a lot and be more nutritious. It takes a lot of time to buy food and cook every day.

3. Energy is difficult

There must be many trivial things to take care of the baby. When the baby was younger, he only knew that he was fine when he slept. When the baby is older, what needs more worry is climbing, turning over and sitting. He is afraid that the baby will fall and get sick. If he is ill, it will be even more difficult. He is afraid of infecting the baby. He doesn't feel well and doesn't have enough strength to take care of the baby.

You will be at a loss when you encounter baby problems.

Baby choking, spitting, crying all night, crying inexplicably, these are the problems that novice mothers often encounter, and some living habits, such as having to hug before they can sleep, all of which make novice mothers at a loss.

Although novice mothers will encounter all kinds of problems, there are always more so-called methods than problems. This is my situation. I was delivered by caesarean section, but my mother came home on the third day of my confinement, and then I contracted all the children's food, drink and sleep.

This was unimaginable before. I remember just seeing a 7-year-old child in my class writing a poem, and netizens commented that we should not underestimate the potential of any child. So is Ma Bao. Don't underestimate the potential of any Ma Bao.

First, every treasure mother has her own professional aura.

Before giving birth to a baby, I was also a non-sticky person, and my life skills such as cooking were always at a low level. However, after giving birth to the baby, generate, which was flooded with maternal love, immediately turned me into an authentic hot mom full of vitality.

My mother was surprised at my performance. In her eyes, I have been a person who only waits for others to take care of me since I was a child.

When reading a book, I can't wait for my mother to put her rice bowl in front of me before eating it, but I am in a poor state with my baby. Believe in yourself, you naturally have the potential to bring a baby.

Second, if you can give it to automation, you should give it to automation and learn leverage.

I am most fortunate to be born in this modern intelligent society, and there are so many smart small household appliances around me, which completely helped me out of the hurry-scurry state:

Using diapers all day, I always think that the invention of diapers is simply the most friendly invention for mothers. Gee, I think my mother's generation washes all kinds of diapers every day. When the baby is really flustered, breast milk can be sucked out with a breast pump. If you are worried about drinking milk at night, you can use a milk warmer. When you are confused in the middle of the night, you can directly give your baby a just-right bottle to eat, as easy as blowing off dust. Baby can drink milk powder, baby can drink water with a milk machine, baby can eat complementary food with a thermos bottle, and adults can make an appointment with a soymilk machine to make soymilk for breakfast. Zisha pot can directly cook all kinds of soup, which is delicious and nutritious. Pork ribs can be stewed in pressure cooker and dishwasher to directly remove stains. Now all kinds of small household appliances are really easy to use, and they are all reserved, so you can eat hot meals anytime and anywhere.

Third, the baby has a problem? The internet is so developed, don't you think it's a pity not to use it?

When there was no Internet, we could only rely on our mothers' experience, personal instruction from our seven aunts and our neighbors to take care of our children, but now we have more choices.

What should I do if my child cries at night after delivery? /kloc-how much should a baby of 0/year old eat to avoid overfeeding? What if you don't like breastfeeding? It doesn't matter. You have all the nets. You can search it, have a look, and see the practical experience of others. All over the country, all corners of the country, treasure moms from all over the world go into battle to help you solve various problems.

There are also various types of apps, and you can find anything you want.

Fourth, peace of mind and a better life.

Finally, even if there is no one to accompany you, even if there is no one to help you, you should calm down and pay attention to the beautiful things after reading the book Secret these days.

Ma Bao pays attention to the beauty of children's growth, and she doesn't have to worry about the conflict with the educational concept of the elderly. It is best to pay attention to her own growth and have a peaceful mind. Children will also feel your good attitude, be healthy and happy and not get sick.

Think about how happy it is to take care of the baby every day and see every little moment and change of the baby. Take care of the baby actively, starting with me.