Generally speaking, according to some local customs, you can prepare some things that your mother liked to eat before her death, such as fruits, dried fruits, meat, etc., as a tribute, you can also prepare some clothes and bedding appropriately, and you can also burn some gold ingots. Now, you can also set up a memorial hall in memory of your mother for free on Qingming Online in China, and pay homage to your mother anytime and anywhere.

As long as you tell your mother about your life and mentality changes these days with your heart and heart, expect her to be blessed by the spirit of heaven, reflect on yourself, think about yourself and educate yourself, you can be regarded as comforting your mother's spirit of heaven.

First, according to the funeral ceremony in ancient China:

1, the sacrifice of Xiaoxiang Xiaoxiang refers to the sacrifice of the first anniversary of the death of parents. "Small auspicious, this name. Auspicious, auspicious "that is to say, the dutiful son can gradually take off his mourning clothes and put on auspicious clothes after the sacrifice in Xiaoxiang. For example, a man can take off the mourning band on his head and replace it with an acrobatic crown made of cooked silk, so Xiaoxiang's sacrifice is also called "acrobatic sacrifice". The focus of Xiaoxiang sacrifice is to practice clothes, not mourning.

2. Sacrificing Daxiang refers to the second anniversary of parents' death, which is called "Daxiang". According to the ancient Confucian classics, the filial son can only eat rough rice and drink water after the funeral, eat vegetables and fruits after the Xiaoxiang Festival, and use condiments such as soy sauce and vinegar in the food after the Daxiang Festival.

3. Sacrifice is a memorial sacrifice. Mao, the name of sacrifice, is also January and Daxiang. Every 27 months since the funeral. "What you say makes you feel safe." . When offering sacrifices, after kowtowing to the deceased, offering sacrifices and burning paper money, guests should be entertained. After the ceremony, the funeral is over. Life has returned to normal after losing loved ones.

Second, sacrifice.

When offering sacrifices, sacrifices cannot be omitted. Because people imagine that the dead in the underworld will eat, drink, dress and trade like people. Therefore, we should always provide ghosts with food and drink, burn paper money to make ghosts have money to spend, and burn clothes and utensils to make ghosts useful. Generally speaking, all necessities such as food, clothing, housing and transportation used in people's daily life can be used as sacrifices. Sacrifices can be physical objects or symbolic objects made of paper or other materials. People think that ghosts only enjoy sacrifices in spirit and breath, and only absorb the essence of sacrifices without eating physical objects. In most cases, sacrifices can be eaten by people who sacrifice.

There are two main ways to send sacrifices: one is to burn sacrifices with fire and let the breath soar in the sky for the undead to enjoy. The second is to put sacrifices in front of the deceased or in front of the grave for the deceased to entertain themselves. In addition, in ancient China, there were different levels of sacrifices for the dead with different identities, which was insurmountable.