Tell her what you think, don't worry too much and don't be too anxious about it. You are husband and wife, and you are the closest people to each other. To tell the truth, you are together because you love each other, so you should learn to accept everything about your wife, including the advantages in your eyes and the disadvantages in your eyes. You can try to improve yourself, cooperate with her, and let her know your efforts and her own requirements.

Only in this way can we solve a problem best, and the best way to solve it is to put it out. Because everyone knows about it, then everyone knows how to deal with it, and everyone will have the ability to deal with it. But sometimes the authorities are fascinated, so your way of dealing with things is useless.

Let your wife know the difference between your and let her know that you are actually a little afraid of her and a little nervous now.

Learn to work hard with your wife, and let your wife learn to adapt to you and slow down.

Too strong perfectionism is undoubtedly a disease. If your wife's perfectionism is still normal, then I think there is still plenty of room for you to get along better. However, if her perfectionism has reached the point of obsessive-compulsive disorder or worse, then I think it is necessary for your wife to choose medical treatment.

Don't be afraid of medical treatment. Seeing a psychiatrist is not an embarrassing thing. Someone once told me that 80% people in the world basically have psychological problems, only in light rooms and heavy rooms.

If this situation continues, it may develop to the point where you can't handle it anymore. So it is the right choice to solve the problem as soon as possible.