A son was born in the second year after marriage. At that time, the conditions at home were really bad. At that time, my husband went to work for a few dollars a month. Now many people still don't believe it. Many times, the money has to be used in several parts. Fortunately, my son is in poor health. If he is often ill in hospital, it is definitely not enough.
Later, after the economic reform, my husband boldly resigned from the company and started his own business. At first, it was not easy. When he was short of money, he borrowed it from my family. Business is investment. Sometimes when I can't eat, I rely on her family or her husband's family to help me, but fortunately, I survived that difficult time. Later, her husband's company gradually improved.
When my son was in high school, our family lived a comfortable life. Husband, a very good person, has arranged both parents well, and our family precepts are also very kind. Being a man with a conscience, my son was very sensible at that time. Even though his family is rich, he never shows off in front of his classmates. He is still a very low-key person.
When he graduated from college, he made friends with his daughter-in-law, Wang Fang, and talked for only three months. My son took her to our house. When she first entered the door, Wang Fang pretended to be familiar with me and acted very ably in front of me. The son said that her family is rural and there is only one old father at home. Her life experience is also a little worse. Usually she is very kind to her son. It's not that I don't like her coming from the countryside, but that she thinks Wang Fang has some influence.
It's no use if I object. Shortly after graduation, Wang Fang got pregnant before marriage. I have to accept this daughter-in-law to look after the children. After marriage, I stayed at home every day. When he has no money, he asks his son for it and seldom goes back to visit his father. My husband and I can't say anything. I only met this in-laws at my son's wedding. Although I asked my son to visit his father-in-law, my daughter-in-law refused to go, saying
Daughter-in-law didn't bring her baby after giving birth. The nanny asked her to take care of the baby without even feeding her mother. Speaking of fear of breast deformation, what can a mother-in-law say if her son wants to? After all, she doesn't live with us. I can bear it if she doesn't like it. Daughter-in-law always follows others, shopping and having afternoon tea, which is her favorite thing.
Once I went to my son's house to visit my baby grandson. When I walked to the door of the community, I saw my in-laws stumbling around the community from a distance, holding a basket of earth eggs and some local specialties. The sack contains some vegetables grown by myself. I asked my in-laws to sit in the house together, but he refused.
He said: Fangfang said she was not at home and asked me to wait for her downstairs. In-laws, you go up, or I'll help you carry it up, so I won't sit in the house. I'm afraid of getting dirty at home. Fangfang doesn't like it. When I heard my in-laws say this, my tears almost came out. Parents have worked hard for their children, but they are so disgusted. I still took my in-laws upstairs.
When I opened the door, I saw my daughter-in-law sitting on the sofa, chewing melon seeds, spitting melon seeds, eating rice and watching TV series. She called her in-laws just now and said that she was not at home. She glanced at her father and said in disgust, "What are you doing here, humiliating me? I always send you money home. Why did you come to my house? Who wants your shit? " Her father immediately raised his feet and was ready to leave. Hearing this, all parents shuddered. Since my daughter-in-law is so uneducated and likes to covet wealth, I will let her suffer. When can I change her personality when I kick her out of the house and go home? I know how to respect my parents. Come back. I am a parent and have no role model at all. You think I kicked my daughter-in-law out of the house