Do you have to face the menu when cooking for the first time?

You can pour some oil at will, put down the ingredients, stir fry a few times, and then add some seasoning according to your feelings. Soy sauce, vinegar, monosodium glutamate ... all poured into it. Take it out and taste it. Not ripe yet. What shall we do? Do it again.

The second time I did it, I learned from my experience and built a pot for a while. Then you feel confident, take it out and try again. It's too fucking salty to eat.

the third time ...

Maybe you can cook for more than a dozen times and finally make a dish that satisfies you, but at this time you are too hungry and miss the best time to eat.

Maybe you finished it once and then gave up. Time waits for no one. Although it's not delicious, I just need to fill my stomach.

It seems ridiculous, but it represents the love experience of most people.

From ignorance to harvesting love, to being unable to grasp the breakup, to the next one, and then to breaking up because of some factors. This cycle, until the vicissitudes of life, or bow to the years.

Do you have to have skills in falling in love? Not necessarily to some extent.

Because you can take a chance, maybe you'll be lucky when you cook for the first time, and you'll make delicious food if you get it right. Then you send a circle of friends, who said that cooking must be disciplined, Lao Tzu has talent, and the kitchen god is reincarnated.

But this is a very small number after all. Most people are ordinary people after all. Ordinary people get up early every day, dreaming of winning the lottery one day, but they can only praise others on their mobile phones.

Ordinary people lack love experience and don't know how to maintain their feelings. They can only miss one period after another.

Therefore, falling in love inevitably requires certain skills.

The skills here are also external and internal. Externally, it's like reading what I'm writing now. You think so, but you just know the general meaning. Only when you practice and find that the lying trough is really like this can you really internalize your skills. When you are proficient in your heart, skills can't be called skills, but just your own way of doing things.

Just as a recipe gives you a general idea and direction, as for your own taste, you must try, adjust and conform to it.

When you cook a dish hundreds of times and have your own unique style, will you still say that others taught you to cook it?

As for being too enthusiastic, will you really not cherish it? You have to look at the other person's warm attitude towards you before deciding.

You like to cook fried rice with eggs, and you like to eat a lot of salt. After eating three grains of rice, the other person didn't spit out the taste. On the contrary, he appreciates your cooking. I like that you cook him fried rice with eggs every day, and you don't feel tired after eating five meals a day. Do you think we are made for each other?