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Two days ago, I was screened by Teacher Wang Er's "Thanks to the founder for cashing in 654.38+05 billion, and my peers are disgusted with you".
To be sure, I was really attracted by this title. But I couldn't wait to turn it off before I read the whole article.
Because my inner anxiety was really ignited, I had no patience to continue reading. I am ashamed to think of my present situation and compare it with my peers in the article.
Just the day before Tomb-Sweeping Day, I lost 12 yuan, and I couldn't eat my distressed dinner.
The thing is, on the way from work that day, I remembered that the old man said that snails before Qingming were the fattest, so I thought about following the solar terms and eating snails before Qingming.
So he passed by an aquatic product store and bought all his remaining snails. It was originally 7 yuan a catty, but I got 6 yuan on the grounds of large-scale procurement. Two Jin in all, 12 yuan. Although it is a little more, I also feel that I have earned it. Singing all the way home
When I got home, I followed the menu of "Go to the kitchen" and cooked snails with three strokes and five divisions.
After the snail was served on the table, his mood began to plummet.
This turned out to be a dish, smelly snail! It smells like a faint ecstasy, and I don't want to taste it. Four of them stink inside!
All the good moods flew away instantly, and the whole person fell to the bottom. I can only throw away snails while denouncing unscrupulous traders.
To tell the truth, I almost cried at that time, except for 12 yuan, which I dumped in the trash can! This is the money for a half-fragrant, tender and juicy roast chicken steak!
I just recovered from the grief of losing the roast chicken steak. Yes, Teacher Wang Er told me that my peers earned1.500 million!
What? ! I'm still crying 12 ...
Can I not be ashamed, ashamed and sad? I may never earn hundreds of millions of assets in my life.
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I am an ordinary office worker. Ordinary when studying, ordinary when working, ordinary when earning money, ordinary when living in a house and driving a car. Even the figure is ordinary, sitting at a desk, with a greasy stomach and middle age.
I don't admire the high vision and thinking of the founder Hu Weiwei, and I may never come up with a business project that can change the current social lifestyle. What angel wheel, a wheel, may be a lifetime distance from me.
I can only do what I can in my own small scope. Even I have a little dream. I want to enlarge my official WeChat account. I want to earn more money by writing, so that I can have a freelance job after I quit my job.
However, the sudden appearance of this1500 million is like a blow. He didn't tell me how to approach my dream, but he told me, "Forget it, your dream is worthless in front of1500 million." Can you earn1500 million? Can't? ! I'm sorry, you were abandoned.
After reading this article for two days, my mood was even lower than that of throwing 12 yuan.
I'm not anxious, I'm desperate. If I wasn't afraid of death, I might really choose to be reborn.
Desperate, I started a Jedi counterattack-that is, giving up completely.
I can't make so much money in my life anyway. Anyway, I have been abandoned, and I can do whatever I want. What you dream about can be eaten as food? Eat what you should eat, drink what you should drink, live what you should, live what you should, and live what you should.
However, the days of being divorced from self are not much better than the days of anxiety.
Seems to be a conscience discovery. There is always a voice in my heart asking myself, "have I used this attitude all my life?" This is the case in my life, will you? "
Another voice said, "Otherwise, what can you do?" ? what can I do? "
Like an egg in a pot, both sides are in pain.
Is there a reason why I can live with peace of mind, without anxiety, but not satisfied with the status quo?
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I thought for a long time, and finally at a moment of squatting, lightning and thunder flashed. One word that comes to mind is "Believe in the power of time".
I found that my despair came from burying a too high anchor value in my heart. Seeing $65,438+500 million, the psychological default is that those who earn less than $65,438+500 million are losers among their peers, or abandoned people or losers. And1.500 million is too far away for ordinary people like me.
As a result, excessive anxiety gave birth to despair.
However, if you turn your eyes away from the seemingly grand goal of "1.500 million", but focus on your own progress and growth, focus on what you love for a long time, and strive to make progress every step, your heart seems to be much more solid.
This is "believing in the power of time".
I believe that as long as you work hard day after day and year after year, one day in the future, when you look back, you will find that you have left yourself far behind and taken a big step forward. Time will give you the best feedback on your efforts.
Believe in the power of time, and believe that water drops wear away. I believe that people who run on the road of destiny every day will eventually become better themselves even if they don't win time.
Believe in being down-to-earth, and believe that "the road of life is not in vain, and every step counts."
Focus your goals and attention on things that have long-term interests, keep working hard and leave the rest to time. .
So I decided not to give up and stick to my worthless little dream now.
Time flies. Ten years ago, I was a fresh graduate and knew nothing. Holding the mentality of playing at work and playing after work, mixed. Really like the blink of an eye, I became an old aunt. Looking back now, what I found was actually the poor life I despised at the beginning.
However, you can look down on me today, but don't look down on me in the future. The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago. Besides, it still is. I missed it ten years ago, and it's not too late.
Everyone's life has different time zones. Some people love to think, so they are precocious, and some people are silly until they are 30 years old.
New york time is three hours earlier than California time, but California time has not slowed down.
Someone graduated at the age of 22, but waited five years to find a stable job!
Someone became CEO at the age of 25 and died at the age of 50. Some people become CEO 50 years late and then live to be 90 years old.
Some people are single, others are married.
Obama retired at the age of 55 and Trump became president at the age of 70.
Everyone in the world has his own time zone.
Some people around you seem to walk in front of you, while others seem to walk behind you.
But in fact, everyone has their own rhythm in their own time zone.
Many people's anxiety is not success at all, but "immediate" success.
If it is not something that can succeed immediately, they have no patience to invest time and energy. But in this world, how can it be so easy to succeed immediately?
So they have been suffering from anxiety. Every once in a while, they are quickly hit by some anxiety about mass sales, then forward, lament and collapse.
Anxiety itself is of little value, but it is meaningful to persist in doing it day after day.
Remember, believe in the power of time.
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