Listening to a radio program on the way to work feels more congested than being stuck in Yangquan West Road. It is nothing more than the following netizen.

@ Yanling, recently attended a colleague's wedding. According to his hometown, it is generally 10 yuan, 20 yuan's money. Because I don't know much about my colleagues' customs, I handed it in this time 100.

After attending the wedding banquet, he began to regret: he felt that there was too little money with the gift and worried about what his colleagues would think.

According to his description, there were more than a dozen cold dishes and more than a dozen hot dishes at the wedding banquet that day. When he left, he also sent a big box of snacks.

As a result, he posted it online. As soon as the post came out, the netizen instantly fried the pot.

After many twists and turns, @ Yanling said that it was really embarrassing and was badly scolded by netizens all over the country.

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In fact, there are happy events between friends and colleagues, and it is not a bad thing for everyone to follow suit and reciprocate.

However, with the changes of the times, in addition to weddings and funerals, there are centennial banquets, birthday banquets, promotion banquets, opening banquets, enrollment banquets, army building banquets, housewarming banquets and so on. We are overwhelmed with all kinds of gifts.

"Money" was a good blessing, but now it is becoming more and more "heavy". It will change with it. It has even become a human burden in many people's lives, just like a "red worry" hanging over people's lives.

Someone made a preliminary investigation, and the universal standard of accompanying money in the country-

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After careful analysis, as the number of members increases year by year,

There are several reasons-

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I chatted with a few friends around me and found that in Yixing, money is not low.

Ordinary relation

If you two are just friends and colleagues, the money is usually around 200 yuan -300 yuan.

Student relations

Ordinary students, excluding girlfriends, just pack about 600 yuan casually, just follow the crowd.

attraction

Whether you are a best friend or a best friend depends on your feelings. 600- 1000 yuan, and now many young people will also pack 13 14 yuan's red envelopes! Some trenches directly pay 2000 yuan or more.

Family relations

If you are a relative or elder, 500 yuan is generally more distant relatives, and a closer relative or elder is at least 1000, and many of them are more than 1000.

After living in Yixing for so many years, can you handle the matter of "money"

In fact, you don't have to be a follower for people who can't even say their names.

The stale "penny" has long made people complain. For many years, the government has been advocating simple weddings and funerals, and prohibiting extravagance and waste. The reality is that the wedding ceremony is getting bigger and bigger, and there are more and more "penny", which has long lost the "original flavor" of communicating feelings between people.

There are also different views on "following members". What's your opinion?

supporter

Deep feelings! Pull hard! It's not good to send less, and friends are far away. The amount of money tells a question, how is the relationship between friends.

opposition

My heart is cold, and this follower has changed from an initial expression of mind to an economic burden.

neutral

Pay for it yourself and let others talk! Courtesy between friends is a blessing to each other, so can't we spend less?