The other day, I attended a friend's wedding. After we went to the table, the bride and groom had just finished drinking and left for a few minutes before I was half full. Behind me stood two or three middle-aged women, with convenient bags in their hands, and kept asking, have you finished eating? How long will it take? So, how to eat? I was so angry that I threw my chopsticks on the table, stood up and left. At this time, five or six people rushed up, just like the bandits in those days, the dishes on the table were packed in convenient bags. In less than a minute, all the dishes on the table were looted. At that time, they all looked stupid to me. How did people become like this now?
I don't think it's appropriate for your colleague to start packing before he has finished eating. Such a person looks very family-oriented, but he will never have any sense of responsibility. This kind of people only have themselves in mind, never consider the feelings of others, and often do whatever it takes for their own interests. Their hearts only get, not give.
We try to stay away from such people because they have no love at all. You can't count on them at all when you are in trouble and need help. Don't let their bad habits infect us. These are my views, and I hope you can also put forward your own views and suggestions.
Your colleague's career future is basically decided in this meal, and dinner has made several fatal points. First, I don't know the general idea and etiquette. Put yourself in others' shoes. Isn't your leader organizing dinner just to enliven the atmosphere and enhance cohesion? You packed before you finished eating, which made everyone uncomfortable and wasted money. Second, greed takes advantage. Don't say that you care about your family and love your family. This kind of thing is completely regardless of the occasion. You have to pack, you can call after dinner, and then pack after the leader toasts. Isn't this a blow? Fortunately, this is a party for your company. What if it's about cooperation with customers? When customers see such people, the first thing they question is your leadership ability. I don't know why someone chose someone to take such a subordinate out for dinner. Where is the leadership?
I seldom see this kind of thing, but there are many such people.
The company dinner itself is a public occasion. Fortunately, everyone worked hard for so long, and the boss organized a party to get together, have a happy meal and chat. If it is, someone will serve vegetables as soon as the leader makes a toast, which will not only make him lose face, but also make his colleagues laugh. Such a person is probably short-circuited, and should not.
We also advocate CD-ROM action, which is not extravagant and wasteful, but after the banquet, everyone can clean up and take the leftovers away. I believe that no one will laugh at you and praise you secretly. You are a thrifty housekeeper and don't waste food.
Dinner! There are many kinds, family dinners. Students have dinner together. Comrade-in-arms banquet. Unit banquet! Let's talk about the unit banquet today. Unit banquets are divided into working meals and year-end summary meals.
This kind of party begins with employees sitting around the table. Waiting to serve. After all the dishes are served. The leader began to speak. The leader said that employees eat at the bottom floor. When the leader finished speaking. Employees eat almost less. Then the leader took a big glass and toasted each table. You have worked hard this year, so do well next year.
The table where the leader toasts is equivalent to the end of the banquet. Because people who can make tables are very familiar in daily life. So people are not so picky about it. It is normal to pack after eating. Waste is a crime. Between colleagues. It's best not to be so particular. Have a good time.
By the way, ordinary employees don't have much friendship and feelings with their bosses. They say that the boss just finished drinking and his colleagues cleaned it up, which means that it was just that time. I don't know why it was misunderstood by everyone [cool].
[Laughter] [Laughter] [Laughter] How can I see what I can't see! Haha, remember that virtue is always with you. He packed his bags and looked at you! If it's food in front of you, grab it and put it down! Ha ha! What company is so incompetent? Our restaurant rules only eat, no eating! Never! Who is in charge of packing? How much more is the annual meeting!
Everyone attended the company dinner. All the dishes are not for you alone. It's a good habit to take it home without wasting it, but it depends. It is extremely selfish and impolite to pack up and take it away before dinner is over. Even after dinner, you should ask others if they need it. This is also courtesy and respect for them.
Personally, I think this is not good.
1. Formally speaking, everyone hasn't finished eating. It's impolite and selfish of you to pack first. This is a bad habit.
2. From the health point of view, if there is an infectious disease or something, the leftovers that everyone has moved.
Don't covet some petty advantages, you'd rather eat the same.
People can be poor, but they can't live without dignity. Some of your actions will make others look down on you.
You can ask the waiter to divide the meal equally according to the head. Just say: it seems that everyone likes to go home to eat, and everyone can take it home to eat.
Taking public property as your own is an infringement on everyone's interests. This behavior is no longer just a matter of moral restraint. Such employees need education. Just have a good attitude and be thorough. To be clear, it can be done in another way.
Maybe you can choose the former way.