After chatting for a month, we should meet again because of family pressure or to give face to the introducer. A person who speaks well will certainly take this into account.
a gentleman, even if he doesn't like you, will stop you when you pay or return the money to you immediately afterwards. This is a man's courtesy. If he doesn't do this, it means that he doesn't care what image he wants to keep in front of you.
I guess he doesn't have other resources at present, and he's wondering if it's okay to find someone who likes him since he can't find one he likes. This girl likes me on her own initiative, and she can tolerate a month's non-appointment, even willing to spend money for me on her own initiative. If I don't mind close contact, I'll try it first, and then I can break up with someone who is suitable after the big deal. But unfortunately, after close contact, he still has no impulse to you. The evidence is that I won't contact you afterwards.
do you understand this explanation?
Your quietness makes you look boring and unattractive. Your blind compromise and bottomless acceptance of kisses make you look cheap and even hate marriage. Even if he sees you with one in ten thousand chances of success, your performance makes him feel that it is not a pity to give up on you.
maybe you will wonder, shouldn't you be reserved when you meet for the first time? Is it wrong to be quiet? But he obviously comes to see you with a critical attitude. You act like you need to be pursued before you can agree. What do you think he will do? After your initiative, you hit yourself in the face.
since he treats you like this, you can put up with it and still feel like him. Obviously, his conditions are better than yours, and you have climbed high. Don't deny that an ordinary girl can't stand this kind of treatment.
in this case, you'd better give up, and nothing will come of it. Even if you don't give up, I don't suggest you take the initiative to contact him. You have made him feel bad. If you take the initiative to contact him again, he will look down on you even more.
In addition, I suggest you clean up your circle of friends first. Since you want to rely on these connections, you should pack yourself up. This is the first business card for others to know you.
Take photos of going out to play at night, photos of male friends, photos of beer, photos of big parties, articles on chicken soup for the soul, rather than articles on BMW crying. Men should be kind to their daughters-in-law, and how much women have sacrificed for their families. Delete all such articles. Send some beautiful street photos, don't take selfies and PS. Turn to the menu, be grateful to your parents, your own flowers, and positive content. Chat more actively, meet quietly, the next blind date, he won't confess, don't agree to any of his requirements. When he asks you, tell him that I only hold hands with my boyfriend, and I'm not your girlfriend. He will confess.