"Three gold for marriage" refers to the gold jewelry given by the bride's family, grandmother's family, aunt's family and aunt's family before marriage, that is, dowry: gold ring, gold bracelet, gold ankle bracelet, gold necklace, jade bracelet, jade pendant, bead string and so on. These three gold coins were passed from the emperor's grandmother to the king's grandmother, from the king's grandmother to his grandmother, from his grandmother to his mother, from his mother to his daughter, from his daughter to his granddaughter, from his granddaughter to his great-granddaughter, and from his great-granddaughter to his great-granddaughter ... representing the inheritance of matriarchy. The gold jewelry my aunt gave my niece represents a powerful mother family. Although we live far apart, my aunts and nephews can walk around for a long time. My mother and son are soul mates. Grandma gave her niece gold jewelry, which means that after her marriage, her nieces can't be separated, and her nephews must move around for a long time. My uncle gave my niece gold jewelry, representing the debts and compensation of the brothers and sisters who bought and sold the bride price. I hope my niece's husband's family can let her often go back to her grandmother's house, because the bride price buys and sells marriage, so that the woman can sever relations with her grandmother's house, menstruation's house and menstruation's house. Sanjin also represents the love and attention of her relatives to the woman. It is also a symbol of resisting the traditional patriarchal society. The meaning is that my daughter is not a concubine, my family is not selling my daughter, and my family will not accept your bride price. Even if your family forces the bride price, my family will give it back to your family. The daughter has a dowry and is rooted in the family.

Please publicize the correct values. Three gold is the bride's dowry. Not a dowry. It is for my daughter, not for my son's brother-in-law. Whether it is called a bride price or a bride price, it is a buying and selling marriage. It's all for my brother-in-law. It has nothing to do with the woman herself. The function of dowry is to buy a daughter-in-law for my son. There is no bride price for parents. If the woman has no sons and nephews. Then the bride's family doesn't want a dowry. Sanjin was bought by my mother for my daughter. This is a dowry. Dowry is a daughter's premarital property. The dowry is for my brother-in-law. Few people give their daughters a bride price, but they all pay lip service. Note: Sanjin is a dowry, not a dowry. Even if the man's family sends gold jewelry, it has nothing to do with the woman. Because the bride price belongs to buying and selling marriage, one hand pays the money and the other hand pays the person. Otherwise, in traditional marriage, where does the bride price come from when the surname is given, the husband's surname and the woman's maiden collectively kowtow to the man's family? The bride price demanded by the bride's family not only became a consort, but also lowered the generation of the man's family. In-laws are parents. The public intention is uncle. A woman who knows everything is a bully, which is a derogatory term for a vicious aunt. Grandparents are disparaging terms for their father's spouse. Why did you have a big baby before? Because the daughter-in-law bought has a low status, it is a tool for fertility and hard work. The husband's family has the right to beat, scold and kill. And the reward belongs to the woman's ransom. Said the daughter is not a concubine, personal freedom. Dowry belongs to a woman's premarital property and is the foundation of a woman's life. The more dowry, the higher the status after marriage. In the Song Dynasty, women's dowry was even as much as men's premarital property, and the dowry was 20 times as much as the dowry. I really realized that my son has it, so does my daughter, for my son and for my daughter. In a patriarchal family, the dowry cannot be less than half of the man's pre-marital property, so the dowry is at least 10 times of the dowry. Families with dowry will not accept the bride price of the man's family. Even if the man's family gives the bride price to the woman's brother, the woman's family will return the bride price to the man's family, which is called a return gift. Poor households will ask the man's family for a dowry when they sell their daughters and buy their daughters-in-law. There is no return, let alone a dowry. Buy a daughter-in-law for her son with the dowry of selling her daughter.

Three fingers means more. Therefore, the name of hardware only means the hardware of a hardware store. If a man lacks a heart, he will swallow it like a snake. At the first sign of trouble, they catch cicadas. Don't be greedy. Three gold, four gold, hardware and six Jin Jiu gold are wrong.

Women make money by their own hands instead of reaching out to men for money.

Marriage is the financial aid and support given by many families to young couples, rather than selling daughters, buying daughters-in-law, robbing daughters' homes and filling sons' and brothers' homes.

As the saying goes, good men don't eat alone, and good women don't wear dowry. You can not give your daughter a dowry, but please don't give her debt. If you don't buy your son a daughter-in-law, can't you leave the bride price to your son as a pre-marriage start-up fund? Why are you taking care of your son's brother-in-law? As a result, the daughter paid debts for slaves in her husband's family, and her son and daughter-in-law were also heavily in debt.

Dowry is my daughter's pre-marriage start-up fund.

Dowry is a fund for my son's brother-in-law

Families that prefer boys to girls only sell their daughters, as long as they get the bride price, there is no return gift and no dowry. In view of the sky-high bride price, the son has no pre-marital start-up funds, but he is burdened with sky-high debts.

As soon as the young couple got married, they went from nothing to debt.

Women can do what men can do, and men can do what women can do. Everyone is the same. Without dowry, there would be no trafficking in women and children. No one else buys a wife, who still abducts women?