If nothing else, it will at least help the sisters who went to her boyfriend's house for the first time or may go later.
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First of all, how to define when/when to go to my boyfriend's house to pay New Year greetings?
If I remember correctly, it should be the third year that we went to each other's home to send gifts for the New Year.
Mainly in the first two years, we were still students and had no economic ability. In the third year, I came out for internship and took my salary with me, plus some new year's goods bought at home.
Another premise here is that both parents will not urge us to pay New Year greetings and give gifts just because we are students and know that we are financially incapable.
In this regard, I think, in the state of students in love, there is no need to worry about giving gifts for the New Year, and it is not too late to wait until you come out to work.
Another point has been experienced by all my friends around me. They have been working for a year or two, and they have a steady income and jobs. When should I go to their home to pay New Year's greetings?
My suggestion is that your parents often mention you, so you go.
When your boyfriend's parents chat with your boyfriend every day and talk about your girlfriend many times, whether you have only been dating for a few months or not, you should take the initiative to visit your elders and have dinner with them so that they can get to know you personally.
If you say that my boyfriend didn't invite me, wouldn't it be too fall in price for me to take the initiative?
Then I think your question is stupid enough (blame me directly). When two people fall in love together, not only your boyfriend is responsible for you, but you are also responsible for him.
If it is a love based on marriage, you will meet his parents sooner or later, so why not meet your future in-laws earlier to judge whether the future family combination is appropriate.
Otherwise, like a friend of mine who has been in love for 7 years, when I met my parents in the New Year, my mother broke up because she didn't like my girlfriend, and she was speechless.
Second, what should I bring to the other person's house?
Do your homework before you go to the other person's house. For example, you will also search for interesting places before traveling.
Ask each other's parents whether they smoke or drink or not.
If you can't choose cigarettes or alcohol, ask your elders and give a budget so that they can help you choose a good brand to buy.
If you don't smoke or drink, you can consider buying a set of skin care products for your aunt, or buy some stew ingredients that Cantonese people like, such as jelly, cordyceps and bird's nest.
Alcohol and tobacco are the least error-prone things. Even if parents don't need it, relatives should prepare for going home for dinner during the New Year.
Basically, as long as you buy with your heart, even the biscuit elders will not be too picky (but it is best not to) within your own ability.
By the way, I go to Zhang Nan's house to buy cigarettes and wine every year, and then when the year passed, I found that all the wine I sent last year was still on the cabinet. At this time, I will reflect on whether I can change the wine into some other supplements next year.
Actually, I found that I have been writing this for a long time. Many things are not completely said, and it is impossible to say them all at once. If you have any questions about this, you can tell me in the comments.
Finally, I also have a careful machine at the bottom of the wardrobe for everyone to try.
If your boyfriend and mother are both in maintenance, you can choose a beautiful lipstick for her.
Try to choose some classic colors, such as Dior999, TF 16, CHANEL63, etc.
Or she doesn't usually like makeup or use skin care products. You can give her a color-changing lip balm that can be applied without makeup, Dior00 1 or Dior003.
300 yuan can make elders think that you are a very caring little girl, and you are happy when she is happy.
I hope you can all meet your parents happily and fall in love happily.