Have certain rights. If the child is still in the minor stage and does not have enough self-care ability, then parents can control the use of mobile phones and know the password. However, if the child becomes an adult or enters the time of self-management, such as high school and university, and the child has a certain degree of autonomy and resolution, it is very important for parents to gradually let go and give the child their own space and privacy.

1. Nowadays, the age of children owning mobile phones is getting lower and lower. Maybe parents will equip their children with some mobile phones and tablets in kindergartens and primary schools, but at this stage, children's three views are not mature enough to resist the temptation of the Internet. If you have no basic control or understanding of the use of these electronic devices, it is actually bad for children, and children can easily do some addictive things, such as playing games and reading novels.

2. When children have their own cognition and basic autonomy, parents should slowly withdraw their excessive control over their children. Let children master the privacy of their mobile phones. Children should have their own privacy and autonomy. Excessive control is not good for children, and it is easier for children to have rebellious psychology.

3. If the child enters junior high school and senior high school, he will be equipped with a mobile phone for weekend use. Then it is no problem for parents to give their children basic privacy. Parents can moderately guide addicted things, let go of some children's rights, and moderately fly kites can fly better. So are children. If they gradually master the self-care ability of their own lives, they will have a greater sense of accomplishment and be closer to their parents.

Children enter the university and basically reach the age of adulthood. Parents should not know their children's mobile phone password. At this time, children enter the university and basically start to control their study and life completely independently. They will live in the school, have their own life circle, have new friends and a new learning environment. Parents should not know their children's mobile phone password, which is a basic privacy of adults. Mobile phones are also very private things. It's normal to have a little secret, a circle of friends and something you are interested in. Parents' excessive control over their children's privacy is not conducive to their growth and independence.

Parents play a very important role in a child's life, from completely taking over the child, to gradually giving the child the ability to be independent as the child grows up, and then completely letting the child grow up and be independent. This is a transitional process in life, which everyone will experience and parents are learning. Letting go slowly is the right direction. Give children enough respect and trust, and children will have more thinking and understanding when they grow up.