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Lili met her husband at work. Like most women, Lily has no resistance to sweet-talking boys. After getting along for a while, Lili felt that this boy was also very kind to her, so she got the certificate from him. But what Lili didn't expect was that her husband had two attitudes before and after marriage. The sweetness before marriage is a trick to coax girls, and the appearance after marriage is true. Lili's husband gradually took a particularly bad attitude towards Lili. When Lili and her mother-in-law had a dispute, they would not help Lili at all, and Lili was very wronged. But when Lili wanted a divorce, she found herself pregnant, and she put up with it for the sake of the children.
After Lili successfully gave birth to a child, I thought it would be better for her husband and her mother-in-law to give birth to a child. However, the mother-in-law disliked Lili's birth of a boy, completely ignored Lili, and did not take care of Lili after childbirth, and did not help with the children. The most chilling thing for Lili is that her husband found a new moon for Yue Yue on the day of Lili's confinement, leaving his wife and newborn child behind and taking his parents out for a trip. When her husband was on a business trip, Lili thought and thought, drew up a divorce agreement, and took the children back to her parents' house.
Lili's husband came back from a business trip and saw the divorce agreement. He immediately went to Lili's house to make peace with his parents. When he found out that Lili suffered from postpartum depression, Lili's parents said that they would never agree to make up, so the divorce was certain. Lily's husband's regret for being late is useless. The mother-in-law found that her granddaughter was gone, and the grandson she wanted was gone, and the whole family shed tears.
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How to care for pregnant women;
1、? Body care
The health of pregnant women before and after delivery is very important. Husbands and family members should pay special attention to and take care of the physical condition of pregnant women and make nutritious meals for pregnant women every day. The supplementary nutrition should be fully supplemented. It is also necessary to urge pregnant women to rest more and ensure a comfortable and quiet rest environment for pregnant women.
2、? Psychological nursing
Pregnant women are particularly vulnerable during pregnancy or for some time after delivery. Besides physical recovery, they also need psychological care. At this time, what the husband should do is to spend more time with his wife, relieve her anxiety, comfort and encourage her, make allowance for her small emotions and willfulness in this special period, and let the pregnant woman get enough sense of security and love.
3、? Pacify pregnant women
Most of the anxiety of pregnant women comes from the baby's health and trivial matters in life. Family members, friends and husbands around pregnant women should give more to pregnant women at this stage, praise and encourage pregnant women in words, let her have a sense of existence, and give gifts to pregnant women in action. Good friends should talk to pregnant women and take a walk to make them feel at ease and happy.
How to avoid postpartum depression;
1、? Divert attention
Most of the postpartum depression of pregnant women is because they are too anxious or obsessed with a certain problem, so the effective way to avoid postpartum depression is to divert the attention of pregnant women, so that she can have something she likes to do every day, such as listening to music more, having good sisters to chat with her when she is free, and signing up for a yoga class for pregnant women is also a good choice.
2、? Make pregnant women happy
Let pregnant women keep a good mood every day, and depression will not happen at all. The physical and psychological state of pregnant women in a good mood is naturally good. Then it is very important to make pregnant women feel better. First of all, it is important to accompany them. Husbands and sisters should spend more time with each other and take them to do something they like. Don't lie at home every day, it will cause problems.
3、? Let pregnant women know how to vent their bad emotions.
Sweating is a good way to vent negative emotions and relax yourself. Proper exercise for pregnant women is good for their own production and baby's health. When you feel stressed, don't back down. One way is to find relatives to vent, and let yourself vent through exercise, which can relieve a lot of stress and anxiety.
abstract
It is very hard for a woman to give birth to a child, and the relatives around her should give more understanding and tolerance to pregnant women. Spend more time with them and take good care of them, especially their husbands. The children and his wife are not the same person, and his wife has undertaken most of the hard work. As a husband, this time can satisfy his wife's wishes and make her happy. Spending more time with his wife can give pregnant women enough sense of security, which other relatives and friends can't do. Husband can also help pregnant women massage more. It is normal to feel pain during pregnancy. Massage can relax their bodies and minds, so that pregnant women surrounded by love will not get depression.