1. A good woman is a gentle and refined woman. Men should be strong, not weak, and shed tears at critical moments. Women should be gentle, not too tough, not too strong, quiet, kind and considerate. My cousin Li Gui is a very unsuccessful person. Gui Li is forty-nine years old this year. He walked with his head down and dared not speak too loudly. He contracted all the housework at home. He opened a small grocery store himself, but the first thing to do when he comes home every day is to give all the money he earns to his wife. My wife installed a monitor in the south grocery store, not to prevent thieves, but to monitor whether Gui Li had hidden private money. Gui Li is not very poor, but he is timid and has no self-confidence. He often sighs in front of relatives and friends: "In this life, that's it." Sometimes when relatives get together, Li Gui's wife always pinches Li Gui's ear and even slaps Li Gui in the face. Gui Li never dared to fight back, just saying, "Stop fighting, there are many people, it's ugly." . A good woman, gentle and free from vulgarity, will understand a man's heart and leave him face. In fact, if a woman can understand the truth of "be soft and hard", her family will be more harmonious and men will be willing to listen to her. Only when husband and wife get along and respect each other can they last for a long time. Therefore, when you meet a gentle and refined woman, a man can hold hands with her for a lifetime. She will understand you and do more good deeds, so that the family will have a good reputation and a good mood. 2. A good woman is a woman who is filial to her elders. The afternoon before yesterday, when I walked to the door of the community, I heard a quarrel. I walked over and saw Xiaomei quarreling with her mother-in-law. My mother-in-law bought some bacon, but Xiaomei didn't like it. She thinks bacon smells like oil smoke, which is unsanitary and unhealthy. Mother-in-law said, "Xiaomei, if you don't like it, just the two of us." Xiaomei said, "Do you know what you mean? What you are spending now is my money. You can buy things casually. If others don't accept it, you can eat it alone. " Xiaomei seems to have gone too far, but who can make it clear between a daughter-in-law and a mother-in-law? The relationship between Xiaomei and her mother-in-law is very stiff, and everyone in the community knows it. What her mother-in-law eats and buys depends on Xiaomei's eyes. Xiaomei gives her mother-in-law 200 yuan every month, which is too much. Xiaomei often says to her mother-in-law, "You have a son and a daughter. Your daughter has gone to college and your son has just entered high school. You should let your daughter support the elderly. " A woman who is not filial to her elders will lead to family disharmony no matter who she marries. She is sure to be mean to old people. A good woman is filial to her parents and will not force her mother-in-law to take care of her children. A family, happy together, is better than anything else. No matter how poor a family is, it won't care if its parents have one more meal, that is, two more pairs of chopsticks. Meeting a woman who is filial to her parents and holding hands for life is happiness. When men go out to work hard, they don't have to worry about their parents being left unattended, and they don't have to worry about the noise at home, so they can go to work with peace of mind. 3. A good woman is a woman who has a life pursuit. A good woman is a relatively independent woman. She can't do anything, it's all up to men. Some families are rich, but women don't want to "live by clothes" at home. She will go to work, even if she earns little money, but she lives happily. Good women will try to help men start businesses. My cousin Wu Mei got married in Qingyuan, Guangdong, and the couple opened a mineral water plant. The husband is in charge of business contact and delivery, and Wu Mei is the manager and accountant of the factory. She is busy every day. In these years, Wu Mei returned to her family. She lost weight and her white hair appeared. Her family felt sorry for her. Wu Mei said, "Look at my husband's hard work. How can I do without help? He is more tired than me. " Women's pursuit of life revolves around their families and men's careers, and they are never selfish. The ancients said, "A wife is like a dress, and a brother is like a brother." But in today's society, it should be said that a good wife is a man's brother. If a man meets a woman who helps him to become a great career, please hold her hand tightly. The two of them, marching in haste, are getting smoother and farther away. 4. A good woman is a woman who teaches her children well. Why do some children become the black sheep of the family? The main reason is that parents lack education for their children. On the one hand, children are willful, on the other hand, they are poorly disciplined. Many families are dominated by men and women. Therefore, the task of disciplining children is mostly given to women. A woman, if she takes care of her children with her heart, is to study and make progress with her children, not to spoil them blindly. There is an old saying: "A loving mother raises a bad child." In other words, a doting mother is a failed mother. A well-educated mother will not only help her children learn, but also dress them neatly, educate them to be polite, do moral things, give them more love and actively help others. The child's upbringing depends entirely on his mother, who knows more than half. The ancients said, "Mother depends on child." However, the mother's education of children is a black sheep, so the mother is not "expensive", but cheap and shameful. Men are lucky to meet a well-educated woman. Don't worry about no successor, but enjoy the blessing of "prosperity from generation to generation". When you meet them, you will hold hands for life. Both of them are old, and the good days for their children and grandchildren will come. "A good horse with a good saddle", a good woman is lucky to meet a good man. Men don't know how to cherish, and good women will be chilling. What kind of girl is a good girl? 2 1. WholeheartedSince she has a choice, a good woman will treat her choice wholeheartedly. This is the minimum respect for feelings, for others and for yourself. A good woman doesn't eat what's in the bowl and look at what's in the pot, but she is dating this man and having an affair with other men at the same time. Since the famous flowers are taken, if you associate with other friends of the opposite sex, you will consciously grasp the discretion and will not cross the line, which will cause bad associations. 2, can accompany you to suffer hardships when you have money, there are many people who can add icing on the cake to you. When you are down and out, few people will give you timely help. A woman, if a man is down and out, can stick to him without complaint and accompany him to suffer, then such a woman is definitely a good woman. What a woman has done for a man, can't she remember a word "good"? 3. Filial piety is the first virtue of filial piety. Therefore, the important criterion to measure a good woman is whether she is a filial person. Not only can you be filial to your parents, but you can also be filial to your parents, the elderly and the elderly. Women can treat men's parents as their own parents to honor, and such women are not much worse! Men should cherish when they meet! Understand that men are under great pressure in this society and need a flower to help them relax in a stressful life. An understanding woman will not make trouble in front of men for no reason, let alone make trouble. They can also think of what men think and worry that men are in a hurry. Try to help men solve their troubles. How can such a woman not be a good woman? 5. Resilience in Character A good woman has resilience in her character. Without this resilience, women are too weak and not necessarily "good" for men. Such women are burdensome at some times, but resilient women can show their charm better. They are sometimes weak, but now they will not be weak all the time, but they can hold up a sky of their own. Such a woman is a good woman! What kind of girl is a good girl 3 1, steady and calm. People can't help complaining and dissatisfaction in life, but after complaining, she can still live with you in a down-to-earth way. I really don't mean that I can work hard and do whatever I say. I can work in the fields, and at the same time I can keep order at home without disturbing myself. Marrying a wife is not looking for a nanny, life is for two people. As long as she is willing to follow you step by step. Instead of being impetuous and unable to live a down-to-earth life, I think about taking shortcuts and doing some opportunistic things all day. Only willing to enjoy the good, not willing to bear the bad. Or to put it bluntly, I am eager for enjoyment and fun, and I don't care about my life and family. I can only enjoy happiness together, not pain. Or maybe I don't know myself well enough and think I should live a better life, instead of eating chaff with you every day, working hard and degrading you to nothing. Everyone has a bad day, and the occasional complaint is nothing, but resentment is the most terrible. 2, vanity is moderate. People are not absolutely rational animals, and everyone is vain, which we must admit. Who doesn't want to live a good life? Who doesn't want to be looked up to? Who doesn't want parents to be proud of us? Everyone wants to, but they are willing to work hard for what they want. Don't always think about the good things that fall from the sky, sit back and enjoy the success, and impose your pursuit on others. Vanity is understandable, but we should do what we can. If conditions permit, you can eat well, dress well and dress well. But if the expenditure is not proportional to the income, it is a bit unreasonable to satisfy our vanity. I was really carried away by vanity and fell into material desires. What kind of life do you live? Good women are vain, but vanity has a bottom line and will not lose its principle because of some petty advantages. 3. Have a sense of responsibility. A good woman is responsible for her family, marriage, parents and children. Don't escape the responsibility you should bear; Don't shirk your obligations. Knowing that it is your choice, then you will always be firm in your choice and follow your own path. The older you get, the more you feel that responsibility is more important than anything else, which can also be said to be the basis for building a family. In fact, what many young people lack most now is a sense of responsibility. They can never put family interests first, but put personal interests first, and only consider themselves when things happen. It is not unusual to be born without raising. Of course, don't expect selfish people to be responsible. Sometimes they don't know how to be responsible for themselves. How can they be responsible for others? 4. Kind-hearted. There is a line in Forrest Gump, which has been collected for a long time: "I have never seen such a beautiful person. She is like an angel." This is Forrest Gump's first impression of Jenny when he took the school bus for the first time, because everyone didn't like him at that time and thought he was different. Only Jenny is willing to let Forrest Gump sit next to him. A kind-hearted woman is really beautiful. Perhaps only after experiencing life will we know the importance of finding a kind wife, which can not only get along comfortably and practically, but also avoid many disasters in the family. Once you find a wife who can bear grudges, likes to calculate, and is cruel and scheming, just thinking about that kind of life will make you feel horrible. Really staged a realistic version of the "Gongdou Plan", which can easily destroy all the relationships you have painstakingly maintained before. A kind-hearted woman is generally tolerant and generous, and doesn't care about trivial matters. At the very least, she knows how to be grateful, loves her parents at home and respects the old, the weak and the sick outside.