1. Parent-child reading parents' testimony, short film 1
I am the mother of the children in class/kloc-0, and I am very busy at work. I can only accompany my children on weekends, so parent-child reading is an important part of my relationship with my children. Here I would like to share some of my feelings with you. I have always been aware of the importance of reading for children's growth, and I have been buying various picture books since my children have been defecating for several months. At first, I was in a state of anxiety, worried about the quality of books, worried about the number of books, and afraid that my behavior would affect the growth of children. Sometimes anxiety will also affect children, and it is difficult for children to read spontaneously, and occasionally there will be resistance.
The change took place in the summer vacation of last semester. For more than a month, I took my children to the bookstore every day, or read books at home, accompanied them carefully, and found pleasure in reading. Parent-child reading has become easier and easier.
A child's favorite book can make him read it again and again. I have read several books dozens of times. Books he doesn't like can be presented in an interesting way to attract his attention. Only sometimes, I will make some requests to avoid reading only those books every day. I will let him choose a book he likes, and then my parents will help him choose a book we want him to read and read it with him.
Books he likes and wants will be bought home for him, even books he has read many times in bookstores or kindergartens, so that he can realize "freedom of books".
Combine life experience with books, and what you see in books will take your children to discover from life. For example, if you know about moss in books, you will take your children to the community or Longquan Mountain to find the figure of moss.
Inserting questions in reading can stimulate thinking and parent-child reading will become more interesting.
We don't fix the time for children to study every day, sometimes before school, sometimes after school, sometimes before going to bed, and sometimes when they come back from playing outside. We should adjust according to the state of children and stick to it every day. If children forget to play, will they be reminded that today's reading has been completed?
My request for children to study is not to make them become masters of learning, but to feel the colorful world from them. And many children's picture books are also a good experience for us adults to relax and be busy, so I enjoy reading with my children!
2. Parents and children read the second part of the parents' witness short film.
Recently, kindergartens have carried out reading activities of "reading, loving reading and growing up". I am one of many ordinary mothers. Due to the limited time and ability, I can't raise my children wholeheartedly, and I spend most of my time with my grandmother. Therefore, as long as I am at home at night, I will take my children to read books and taste books together. A person's reading ability is not innate, but needs the guidance and cultivation of our parents in early childhood. Coupled with touching stories and daily persistence, I believe that every child will fall in love with reading. There are countless benefits of parent-child reading, and I am deeply touched by several points: 1. It can enhance the emotional communication between parents and children.
2. Cultivate children's good habits.
3. Enhance language ability, imagination and attention. Nowadays, parents are very busy every day and have little time to play with their children, but no matter how busy they are, they should leave time for their children to read.
Through reading, parents and children learn for life and grow together.
3. Parent-child reading the third part of the parents' witness short film
Children's growth and future social survival really need a lot of knowledge, but today, I deeply realize that future children need not only rich knowledge, but also a correct attitude towards life. Knowledge is only a skill for children to make a living in the future, and the truth and correct attitude of being a man can determine the height and value of children's life. Let's read more books with our children and use our life experience and understanding to read children's books. Because our experience is more profound and real, it is necessary for us to tell our children what they can't understand as soon as possible, so that he can understand more and more deeply what attitude he will use to be a man and realize his dreams in the future. We can share the experience gained from reading this story today with our children and tell them that greed and unrealistic demands, inner cruelty and selfishness will eventually make people's lives completely fail. The beauty of life lies in creating it yourself, and such a life is valuable and meaningful. 4. Parents and children read Chapter 4 of their parents' testimonies.
Unconsciously, Doudou children have been studying 1 1 day. Through parent-child reading, I found that children's language expression ability has improved a lot, especially when they calm down and think. Parent-child reading is to let children and parents share various forms of reading process with books as the medium and reading as the link. Let me share my reading experience with you. Doudou children don't particularly like active reading when they are the same age. I remember that every time I go to the supermarket and pass by the toy area, Doudou will choose a more attractive toy among books and toys. I asked Doudou, "Do you want to read this book?" Doug said, "No, I want to play with toys." In fact, we also bought a lot of picture books at home, because many of them were read by my brother when he was a child and put in the bookcase. Only when my brother needs to see it will he take it out. Usually Doudou won't take the initiative to read the book.
As the saying goes, "Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road". Reading makes people understand their own thoughts, and it is really important for children to develop good reading habits. Through the activity of "Happy Reading, Love Reading and Grow", in order to make Doudou like reading, I took out the picture books in the bookcase and put them where Doudou could easily see and get them. In order to enrich his reading, I bought picture books such as China's fairy tales and Sherlock Holmes, and read them with Doudou every night before going to bed.
Another problem I encountered in parent-child reading was that Doudou didn't pay attention. A few times she read stories at night, but didn't finish a story, so she went to do what she wanted to do. Several times, I couldn't help losing my temper. Although knowing emotions is useless, I am still worried that there is no way to support her to read a book or a story completely at a time. Later, I gradually found that Doudou might not like the book I chose. At the same time, only by involving her can we arouse her enthusiasm, so now we go to the bookstore together every week, and then she will choose her favorite books and go home. When she reads, she will add more forms. When reading the book "Truth is just a logical thinking training", Doudou was very involved. She likes to listen to the process of Sherlock Holmes' investigation and then express her views on the case. At present, Doudou's reading habit has been gradually established, so the child is the main body of her own reading.
Parent-child reading should not be one-sided. The times are progressing, and knowledge can be obtained not only from books. I never object to children watching TV and playing. The key is moderation, and it is more important to cultivate children's habit of watching TV and playing computer correctly. Instead of "blocking", it is better to use the strategy of "sparse" and not watch TV or play computer. Even if it is blocked, the children will fall behind. I think watching TV and playing computer with children is also a kind of parent-child reading. Of course, the content is not adult series or violent games. The TV that Doudou often watches is cartoons, so the time should be controlled well. Let Doudou talk about the content of the cartoon.
Parent-child reading should be combined with life, chatting with children, talking about what happened in class, talking about what happened at work, so that children can always know the work of adults, and we can always know the joys and sorrows of children. It is very beneficial to let children talk more and parents listen more.
In the future, I will pay more attention to parent-child reading and strive for Doudou to establish good reading habits from an early age. A book is a small seed. When parents plant it in their children's hearts and irrigate it patiently, the small seed will flourish in generate, grow into a towering tree, enlighten the mind and nourish wisdom.
5. Parents and children read the fifth essay on parents' feelings.
During this time, I studied with my children and felt that the learning atmosphere had improved. Occasionally, by asking children for advice, children will be trained to read more and learn more, and the pride of being a knowledgeable person will sprout. Now that the child is 5 years old, it is a good age to study, so it is necessary to choose a book that suits you. After a period of comparison, I found that books with more pictures and less words are more suitable for her, easy to understand, and the expression of pictures is more vivid, which will increase her interest in reading. Of course, parents should also participate in the reading process instead of simply throwing a book to her. This lasted for more than ten days, and every day when it was time to study, she was conscious and never stopped.
6. Parents and children read the sixth chapter of their parents' testimonies.
Because my father and I are busy at work, my son is rarely around us until he is three years old, which leads to children's serious insecurity and they dare not try all new things, and reading and literacy is no exception. I still regret it when I think about it now, and I am ashamed. But every child is different, and his growth process is different. As long as we firmly believe that our children are the best and correct our wrong teaching methods in time, our children will be equally excellent. First, the wrong method will kill children's interest in reading.
It is said that interest is a teacher. As new parents, my father and I both understand this truth, but we used the wrong method.
The child goes to kindergarten and was born in August. He is too young in the class. As parents, we began to "force" our children to "study" when we saw that the children around us were eloquent and didn't understand. We hope that by "forcing" him to study, he can find pleasure in books.
Looking back now, small classes "accompanying students" seriously hurt children's reading interest because of our wrong way. Because at that time, we hoped that he could know more words. After reading a story to the child, we forced the child to remember the words in the book. The boring literacy trip also made my father and I feel strongly frustrated in teaching children to read. What is even more frightening is that the child's sense of insecurity has made him even more afraid of literacy. Over time, it became an unpleasant thing for him to read books by himself or for us to watch them with him.
Second, don't take "reading" as a task.
During the kindergarten, under the enthusiastic care and careful care of the teacher, the teacher discovered the characteristics that children are afraid of making mistakes, often communicated with us, and guided them slowly, which also made my father and I realize that my child is different from other children. It's an established reality that we were born introverted, or before the age of three, we ran around all the year round, making our children feel insecure. I need to help my children.
After attending the middle class, my family and I have increased our patience and tolerance for our children. As long as I have time, I will "read" with my children, but this year, I have been reading interesting places in the book with my children repeatedly. We no longer struggle with every word, nor force our children to know the new words in the book. This year, I found that our "parent-child reading" has become much more enjoyable. But at this time, both the old man at home and the father of the child feel that such reading is useless, and the child should be allowed to read it himself. Looking at nervous children, I stick to my own method. I repeatedly told my children: "Baby, reading is not a task, but my mother wants to watch more beautiful stories with you!" " "In this way, the child will no longer refuse to let me read him a story.
There seems to be no obvious improvement in children's literacy this year, but I found that children are much more cheerful than before. I can hear his hearty laughter and see that the teachers have awarded him the honorary certificate of "Star of Progress" many times. This time, I believe my children are different from others. Let's take our time. Children will like reading.
Third, don't give up, it's never too late to start.
The child is in the big class and is about to enter the gate of the primary school. Reading has become a necessary condition for children. Seeing that the child has never read any books independently, I am actually very anxious. But I love my child, and I always remind myself that only by letting him spend every day happily can he grow up healthily and happily and be better integrated into campus life. So I still hope he can cultivate his interest in reading. I firmly believe that "I can't force him yet", and I believe that a step-by-step approach will definitely make my children fall in love with reading.
I bought many new books for my children this year, including idiom stories and some simple picture books. Idiom stories are difficult to understand and there are many new words. Basically, I give him vivid explanations, and children can basically remember the stories in the book. Most ordinary picture book stories are read by children themselves. In the recent reading punch, the child finished reading a 35-page picture book story again, and he knew 80% of Chinese characters. This is a great comfort to me. I see that our efforts have paid off, and I also see that children's faces are more confident in their reading ability.
Just last night, he promised me to attend the story sharing meeting in class. Although he is still a little stiff, he said that he would take a book to explain the story of "borrowing the arrow of the straw boat" to the children. The child watched his own reading "rehearsal" video recorded on my mobile phone, and he happily said that he would send it to his father, grandparents and uncles. This time, I was moved by the child.
Sitting in front of the computer to write this book "Reading Experience" also reminds me of more than two years of dribs and drabs. In addition to feeling the bumps along the way, there are some past events that moved me. In the past two years, children have met a group of caring teachers and a kindergarten with good teaching. During kindergarten, teachers help children build up confidence bit by bit. Teachers tolerate children's small temper again and again, and communicate with us again and again about children's situation in kindergarten. It is precisely because of the guidance of kindergarten teachers and the joint efforts of parents that Bell's children have made remarkable progress in all aspects than those who just went to kindergarten. As a parent, I am full of infinite gratitude and deep friendship to all the teachers.
7. Parents and children read Chapter 7 of their parents' testimonies.
Reading is an entertainment that can bring infinite fun to children, and it is also a learning method for them to acquire knowledge and broaden their horizons. Reading habit is the most valuable habit in life. Recently, I got some inspiration from my daily reading partner: Han Xu's daily bedtime activities are bedtime stories, and Han Xu sits at his desk and reads with the company of adults at home. Our bedtime stories are rich in content, including fairy tales, fables, China children's encyclopedia knowledge, children's pictorial and so on. Han Xu likes children's picture books best.
In the process of reading, Han Xu raised many unexpected questions, such as reading Wolf. Han Xu couldn't understand why the little grandson lied again and again that the wolf was coming, but everyone stopped coming to save him. I will tell him that this involves a person's integrity, that is, honesty. Never consume the kindness of others. Han Xu blinked in confusion. I know that although he may not fully understand the moral, this story has planted seeds in his heart, and maybe one day in the near future, an accident will enlighten him. At this stage, knowledge is accumulated bit by bit in daily life.
Adults and children look at problems from different angles, and the conclusions they get are naturally different. Reading with children can better understand his psychological activities and accurately analyze his psychological state, which is very useful for understanding children's thinking methods. And in the process of children's growth, they will face many problems: how to face setbacks and failures? How to face timidity and trouble? These problems will be encountered by every child when he grows up. Sometimes as parents, we really don't know how to answer. Especially for today's children, they have their own world and ideas, and sometimes they really don't know how to educate them. If we read some books that should be read at his age, we will look for answers with him, read with our children and enjoy the happiness brought by reading together.
Parent-child reading, growing up with children. Accompanied by books, life will be more fun, emotions will be more noble, and life will be more exciting!
8. Parents and children read the eighth chapter of parents' testimonies.
Human civilization is a great civilization achievement that our ancestors sublimated into experience and knowledge through continuous practice and summary, and then passed down through books. Reading with children is the key to broaden your horizons and increase your wisdom. The ancients said, "It is better to leave a child behind." Cultivating children's reading habits will be a lifelong gift from parents to their children. Reading with children can give us a common memory of growing up with children. Every night before children go to bed, accompany them to read, feel the wonderful stories and beautiful words in the book, recall the heavy precipitation of history, experience the beauty of nature and explore the novelty of science. Let's learn about the achievements of human civilization in adapting, utilizing and transforming nature, and feel the great spirit of human conquest of nature.
Through reading with children for a long time, I found that this not only increased children's interest in reading, but also helped him answer questions in time when he didn't understand, so that he could understand the truth in the book for the first time. In this way, he gradually increased his wisdom and cultivated his spirit.
We should carry through the parent-child reading together. No matter how busy you are at work, you should spare some time to study with your children. In an atmosphere full of affection, you should indulge in the world of books with your children and enjoy the happiness brought by reading!
Let children grow up healthily and happily in a family environment full of enthusiasm, willingness to learn and books!
9. Parents and children read the ninth chapter of their parents' testimonies.
Reading picture books is an important way to accompany children. Looking back on the time of reading with children, it is full of warm and beautiful memories. Children started the road of reading enlightenment very early. At that time, they didn't think about anything. They just read a book with their children in their arms for a while and enjoyed the warm parent-child time.
Slowly found that through reading picture books, there are gains, such as reading picture books for a long time, found that children's language skills are getting stronger and stronger. Children use more words and sentences, and when they speak, they will apply the dialogues in picture books to their daily lives, which is unexpected. The relationship between written language and everyday things is also very accurate, and sometimes children are very skilled in using one sentence, which often surprises people. After listening to the picture book that the child said it came from, they suddenly realized.
There are also some unexpected gains, which enhance the understanding ability. In fact, some literal words in the book are difficult for adults to explain clearly to children, but when you look at the picture book for a long time, you will find that children naturally understand, and there is no need to explain too much.
Picture books bring a lot of imagination to children. Under the influence of reading picture books, children will direct and perform some small theaters, and they will also come up with a story to tell their parents.
Children's love for picture books also allows adults to read them to their children when they are free, which satisfies children's reading desire. Their feelings with children have also become deeper because of picture books, and their happiness is therefore full.
Parents know the importance of reading, and picture books bring many benefits. Reading is a very low-cost investment, so that children can develop reading habits from an early age. Reading opens a door to know the world and self, which is conducive to children's broader growth space.
10. Parents and children read Chapter 10 of their parents' testimonies.
Through reading every day, let children realize the importance of insisting on doing one thing, which is both fun and rewarding! Unconsciously, I have accumulated more books and read more books at home. My son's knowledge has been broadened, his language expression ability has been enriched, his performance ability has been enhanced, and he has become more confident! By reading a book every day, children not only get a lot of reading methods and knowledge from books, but also develop good reading habits and abilities. He feels uncomfortable without reading every day, and he has developed a good habit of tidying up bookshelves. He even asked me to buy him a new book and take it as his gift ... these are great wealth that reading every day brings us. Watching him grow up, I can't say how happy I am.