In our daily life, it is inevitable for people who want to talk about business. Pay attention to table manners when drinking, especially for girls. Let's learn women's speaking skills.
Talking skills of women's entertainment drinking 1 1. When attending a cocktail party, you should take the initiative to talk to the guests, but when talking to others, you should introduce yourself first. Don't interrupt when talking with many people.
When you chat with someone and learn that they are alumni, you should call them senior, not junior just because they are old. A good address will leave a marked impression, and the next trip will be easier and give people a sense of intimacy.
Don't blow your own horn when talking with people. You come to interact with me. Talk more about each other's advantages and the conversation will be smooth. It never hurts to say nice things to others. Sometimes, if there is really nothing to say, just try to say something short from your parents, or wait a while and then follow suit. Similarly, you can make preparations in advance and plan ahead.
When talking with people, don't put your hands in your pockets, don't chew gum or betel nut, and don't wear sunglasses to talk with people.
Dining and socializing skills with leaders
1, the wine table is exquisite. If you accompany the leader to dinner, then, be sure to arrange the seats, and the high-ranking one will take the main seat. If you don't know, pay attention to the napkin in the cup, and then sit down with the host and guest in turn according to the position. Don't make mistakes.
2. Pay special attention to the lady. If you want to show your grace, then you must pay attention to the care of the lady. Foreign countries attach great importance to etiquette. They have some special manners for ladies, such as helping to move chairs, pouring wine and ordering some dishes exclusive to ladies.
Don't smoke on the dining table. Some people like smoking, but smoking is forbidden at the dinner table, because although some people smoke and some people don't, they don't like to smoke other people's second-hand smoke even if they smoke, so if they smoke, they should go out and smoke.
4, undertake the task of pouring wine. Every restaurant should have a waiter, but a waiter is often too busy and sometimes may be negligent. So take the initiative to pour wine, which can also show our enthusiasm.
Talking skills of women's entertainment drinking 2 1. In entertainment, using implicit language is the most common way. It's not that simple. An implicit language can make both sides understand each other and feel happy in laughter.
When the writer Feng Sao was visiting America, an American friend took his son to the apartment to see him. While they were talking, the child as strong as a calf climbed into bed and jumped up and down on the bed. If you let him down directly, you will definitely make the father apologize, which shows that he is not enthusiastic enough. Therefore, Feng Deng IV said an implicit sentence: "Please ask your son to come back to the earth." The friend said, "OK, I'll discuss it with him." The result not only achieved the goal, but also seemed very interesting.
3. There are many topics that can be talked about in social life, such as one's own experience, reminiscence of past lives, and daily news anecdotes on newspapers, magazines, radio and television, all of which can be used as conversation content C but talk about U; Pay attention to the other person's attitude towards the same topic and coordinate the needs of conversation. You should talk less about topics that you are interested in but the other person is not interested in. For example, if you talk about the popular Song Xiang to an old man, your interest in power may soon become dull.
In addition, the topics that the other party is interested in but not interested in depend on different situations. If the other party is a superior, customer, etc. You should learn to be patient and accommodating. When the conversation is interrupted or interrupted, you can use the topic to change the topic unintentionally. If the content of the conversation is of interest to both parties, you should be careful not to deviate from the topic easily in order to enjoy the conversation.
Talking skills of women's entertainment drinking III. First, women's table manners and speaking skills.
1, don't just say "I'll finish it, I'm comfortable"
Don't casually say "I'll finish it, don't mention it" when women propose a toast. It's nothing to say this in front of some female guests, but male guests love face relatively. Although it seems to be a word of respect, it is a refutation of face, which shows that men are not as good as women.
So it's easy to arouse the competition of male guests and fight with you. And the result of drinking, no matter which side is drunk, is unfavorable to the overall situation, especially the woman's body can't stand tossing, and she can't stand risky gambling.
A woman who is too generous on the wine table will attract more "unstoppable" wine, and no matter how much she can drink, she can't compare with "there are mountains outside the mountains and people outside."
So the best way to learn to protect yourself is to pretend that you can't drink, take a sip like most women, and an occasional big mouth is enough to make customers feel very proud. This is the skill.
2. The punch line is to stop drinking skillfully.
Refusing to drink is undoubtedly one of the effective ways to protect women. The more words you have in your mind, the more you can cope with all kinds of persuasion to drink skillfully without hurting your feelings, or to drink as little as possible without hurting your health. It should be noted that toasting depends on the status of both parties in the dinner. It can be fun for peers or young people, and it is best to be euphemistic for elders or superiors.
It depends on your role in the dinner party. For example, "look down on me if you don't drink." It is not appropriate for the host and guests to say yes, and it is not appropriate for ordinary guests to say yes.
In addition, it is said that if you stop drinking, you should say it several times, and don't rush in when the host and guest drink, especially in the first few rounds. After two rounds, they can insert the word "stop drinking" appropriately.
3. Don't substitute wine at will
Women don't have to think too much when they go to dinner. Protecting yourself is the first priority. Even if you have some alcohol consumption, you don't have to be too active if you want to replace wine with wine. You might as well be passive and wait for the leader to ask or hint.
Again, if the leader shows that he doesn't want to change the wine himself, there is no need to force it. Maybe the leader is in a good mood and regards drinking as a kind of enjoyment? Or maybe the leader also wants to show that his relationship with the other party is unusual? Persistence can only make you look boring.
Women should not take the initiative to drink for their leaders. On the one hand, they are taking risks; on the other hand, they may not win the favor of the leaders.
As long as the leaders don't mention it, they won't. In addition, as a wine hostess, everyone can touch symbolically when they raise their glasses, which means this in their mouths.
Second, the girl wine table etiquette daquan
If you really can't drink it, don't take the first bite. Take your job and eat the food.
If you are sure you want to drink, don't put ink on it, and then there are rules on the wine table.
Rule 1: Although the wine table is affectionate, it is boring; Love is shallow, lick it. " But don't say it while drinking.
Rule 2: Keep a low profile, curl your hair and never fill it up as soon as you get on the wine table.
Rule 3: Before it's their turn to propose a toast, the leaders will have a drink with each other.
Third, the etiquette precautions on the wine table
1, the old man can't sit down until he sits down. If there are ladies, let them sit down first.
It is basically possible for the elderly to sit first, but in many workplaces, most men in the leadership can sit first, which can better reflect his leadership style.
2, pay attention to seating, can not sit in the wrong position, sitting in the wrong position, will eat very uncomfortable.
Regarding seats, the host's right hand side should be the guest of honor, the most distinguished guest on the spot, and the host's left hand side is the deputy guest of honor.
3. After serving, wait for the elderly or guests to move chopsticks first.
Generally, the dining table on formal occasions is basically a round table. After serving, the basic habit is to transfer the food to the guest's position first and let the guest move the chopsticks first.