They like to go to karaoke and dance, but they obey the changes now and just follow the crowd. There's nothing wrong with it. Just relax。 But it's understandable that you said they had to let you go. After all, at the same time, everyone wants to play with others. Since you don't want to go, don't be forced. You can tell them your opinion. You can tell them that you don't love the group, but you really don't adapt to that environment, and there are still things to do. It is important to let them know that you don't disrespect them, just your own personality. I think since they are all such big people, I think your colleagues should all be highly educated. What you described above should reflect that your company won't let some people with low quality in. ) They will understand you. Don't be angry with them. Don't hurt your feelings. Let them know what you mean.

The second question, first of all, you should know that they are old employees. They are very important to you, but they are asking you to do things that the company does not allow. If you obey them and violate the company's regulations, if you don't violate the company's regulations, you may offend them, so you have to solve it from another aspect. However, this problem is really tricky. The above reply said to invite them to dinner, but I think they will let you bring dinner in the future. If you want to solve the problem fundamentally, please talk to them. For example, you are new here and don't want to violate the company's regulations. It's not that you don't want to help them with their food. I just have my own difficulties. After all, I want to gain a foothold now. Be careful to be sincere.

I hope the above will help you.