I think this is a problem that most office workers will have. When we are no longer full of fighting spirit and make great efforts in the workplace for the so-called dreams, we suddenly realize that the dreams that could not be realized are called dreams.

At this time, the word "fresh" can explain some problems. Because in the workplace, knowledge is learned bit by bit, and it is impossible to master a course as quickly as in school. It may take a week, a month, a year or so before we can gradually find a way out, and when we can be independent in our posts, our knowledge learning will begin to decline, and the follow-up work will rely more on past experience.

Gradually, some of us will fall into a cycle. When the novelty disappears, we will start to deal with it again and again, and nothing new will happen. Some people will choose to leave their jobs, and some people, like me, will probably fight for bonuses.

Rent? Mortgage loan? Car loan? Plus the necessary expenses of life? It is a big expense to single out any project.

Although I don't have any problems myself, it's only because I work and live locally. But that doesn't mean I don't understand the pressure of your life as a wandering office worker.

It is said that mental stress is greater than physical labor, and I really began to realize it in the past six months. In the nine-to-six work, except for the daily sales report, monthly report and profit statement, the figures on all these messy forms are increasing bit by bit. Even if I suggest psychologically that this little progress is the result of my own efforts. But there is a little devil who tells himself that this figure also comes from his frozen shoulders and broken body.

Physical pain not only brings extra expenses (fitness, massage, etc. ), also brought sleepless nights.

When money forces itself and has to persist in a post, the pain will be more times.

Like me, rare weekends are occasionally dedicated to people at work. It really makes people have no ideas, and then drag their tired bodies to engage in any amateur life.

However, the boredom of life can still be seen in the end. In retrospect, I have graduated for more than two years now, and my current job is a little more exciting than sales performance. This state of life is really monotonous!

External stimuli will cause a greater psychological gap. When I saw those who learned to dance in my circle of friends, those who traveled abroad, and even those who traveled all over the country, I began to envy them.

How can my life be so monotonous? Why can't I do anything? Do I have to grow old like this? The oneness of work makes me numb but sensitive: numb to the status quo, but unable to stand the progress of others. Want to jump out of the comfortable circle, only to find that your body has become very clumsy.

Whatever the content is. Romance novels, documentary novels, recipes, and even hundreds of words of essays on WeChat official accounts;

No matter what form of books. A book in a bookstore, a book in a mobile phone, and even when you are bored at work, listen to the storytelling of APP;

Once you start reading your favorite "books" every day, you will naturally absorb all kinds of news, and people will always be thinking animals. When new knowledge comes in outside of work, people's brains can't help thinking, which is the first step to success.

How long have you been writing? How many more words can we write? Do you have enough friends to listen to you?

These problems became my troubles, so I began to record some messy feelings with the help of notebooks, mobile phone memos and all possible carriers;

I don't care about time and place, I don't care about the number of words, I don't care about how to write. No matter what you think, you can record it casually;

If you have too many ideas, it will become an article. Even a few words, you should keep a diary. Believe me, these words are also interesting in retrospect.

I used to think washing dishes was too much trouble and I didn't have time after work.

But all this is because I suddenly feel that life this year is too monotonous+summer takeaway is not clean+skin condition is very poor.

This time, after giving up the kitchen countless times, I started again.

1. Start with the simplest dish, scrambled eggs with tomatoes, of course.

2. Vegetable salad, weight loss and health.

3. You can also cook, catch a play or listen to listening and speaking books. Two without delay.

This is an era without beautiful women and friends.

You can take pictures when reading and cooking. Don't be ashamed to make friends, even if others think you are pretending, the praise of your circle of friends is an important driving force for you to keep interested in the early stage.

Because at this time, your identity has quietly changed. You are no longer the one who envies others, but you are likely to become the object of envy.

1. It's boring to find a good shooting angle, read a book and shoot a plain writing casually.

2. the right light. If you shoot food, you still need enough light, and saturation is also the first adjustment in the later period.

3. Use all kinds of apps correctly. If you are in trouble in the early stage, just take a photo of Xiu Xiu with one click.

Take a picture when you think of it. You can also take many photos of delicious food, and finally choose one in a million.

In fact, there are still many, everyone's hobbies are different, and the starting point is naturally different.

However, if you have self-knowledge and know that you are a person with a three-minute fever, let's start with a very small thing.

In this way, completion and satisfaction can be easily satisfied. Then zoom in little by little.

The above four points are all what I started to do recently.

My biggest discovery is that I have changed in the kitchen. I can start cooking leisurely, and even watch TV leisurely while washing dishes. And all the cleaning is over. I look at the time every night, but it's only about 7: 30.

Later, I thought about it, how did I change so much when I went back to the kitchen this time?

1. Start with the least error-prone dish.

At first, I was scrambled eggs with tomatoes+eggplant with garlic+eggs and onions+vegetable salad+shredded potatoes. These basic home-cooked dishes began to have lunch in turn. As long as you don't put more of the only seasoning: salt, the general taste will not go wrong.

2。 Adjustment of the whole cooking process

Cooking used to be done step by step, and a dish was a sequence.

Now I don't know whether it is influenced by work or other reasons. I have a set of time-saving and labor-saving logic in cooking.

Cut all the vegetables to be cut in advance; Cooking in the pot, garbage is also disposed of; Put the dishes directly into the lunch box, and finally clean only one or two bowls+pots.

3. The skin condition is improving

I am a pimple muscle. Besides daily skin care, it also helps to recover. This month's great improvement in status is also due to my own home cooking that is neither spicy nor oily. Although the taste is not as good as that of the restaurant, the dishes I cook are precious and won't feel too bad.

When my interest, driven by these points, was driven, I naturally persisted.

I hope everyone can find a suitable starting point and find changes in themselves.