Suqian Net News (Reporter Zhong Wenlu) There is a pair of "special" sisters-in-law in Chuancheng Town, Siyang County. Why are they called special?
Zhang Dongmei is a physically disabled person with limited mobility. Her sister-in-law Yu Chunyang is unable to take care of herself due to congenital mental retardation.
For thirty years, Zhang Dongmei has been taking care of Yu Chunyang and her family.
Everyone praised Zhang Dongmei as "the most beautiful sister-in-law".
She treats her sister-in-law better than she treats herself
At noon on February 25, the reporter met Zhang Dongmei and Yu Chunyang.
Talking about her fate with her sister-in-law, Zhang Dongmei said: "It has to start thirty years ago."
In 1987, 21-year-old Zhang Dongmei married Yu Deyu. In 1989, Yu Deshuang married Yu Chunyang.
"Because my sister-in-law didn't remember anything, she 'ran away' not long after she married into the Yu family. I went out to look for her on crutches, asking people all the way. Finally, on the third day after she ran away, I found her in She was found in a neighboring town more than 20 miles away from home. "Zhang Dongmei said that in those years, she traveled to Shuyang, Huai'an and other places in search of her sister-in-law.
In addition to taking care of her sister-in-law, she also took care of her parents and children.
After 1990, Yu Chunyang's three children were born one after another. Since then, Zhang Dongmei has been even busier.
In addition to taking care of my sister-in-law, I also have to take care of my two children, my brother-in-law’s three children, and my elderly parents-in-law. Zhang Dongmei feels that as a daughter-in-law and sister-in-law, these are what she should do.
It is not easy for a disabled person who originally needs others to take care of him, but instead takes care of so many people.
In 1993, Yu Chunyang’s parents came to Siyang to visit their daughter. Seeing that the two elderly people had no one to take care of them, Zhang Dongmei left them at home to take care of them until 2003, when the two elderly people passed away one after another.
Because of being busy all day long, Zhang Dongmei suffered from a herniated disc in her waist.
Love is passed on in this family
Under Zhang Dongmei’s careful care, Yu Chunyang has changed a lot.
"She knows that I have difficulty moving. When I want to stand up, she can pull me or give me a cane; when she sees me cooking, she will also help wash and choose vegetables... "Zhang Dongmei said that all these years of hard work have paid off, and now her sister-in-law can still communicate with others simply.
Under the influence of Zhang Dongmei, her son Yu Pei and daughter-in-law Zhang Li were very filial to their parents, uncle and aunt.
Zhang Dongmei said that in order to provide better living conditions for her sister-in-law and her family, her son chose to buy a house of nearly 300 square meters on Zhongxin Street in Chuancheng Town, Siyang County two years ago.
Now the two families live together in this house, which is very lively.
Zhang Dongmei said: "In the future, I will live with my sister-in-law so that this big family will never be separated.
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