However, it should be noted that, generally speaking, marriage is a banquet for both men and women. In order to avoid unnecessary quarrels, it is necessary to communicate the payment and reception of the banquet in advance.
The general procedure is as follows:
1) choose a good day: choose a day to celebrate the wedding.
2) Gifts: Give gifts about one to three weeks before marriage. (That is, accompanied by the matchmaker and relatives, the man sends the bride price money to the woman's home, and the bride-to-be prepares gifts for both parties of the engagement items. See).
3) Wedding ceremony: On the wedding day, the procedure of the ceremony is the same as that of the traditional wedding ceremony.
4) Joint wedding banquet: During the wedding banquet, both men and women can send two or three representatives to the signature office to entertain the guests.
5) How to calculate: Generally speaking, both men and women budget the number of seats in advance, and the man pays in advance and wraps the red envelope with cash (called wine table gift). After the wedding banquet, both men and women pay the banquet fee separately. Gifts and giveaways are generally collected separately.