But it's hard for us to get married if a man is incompetent or has poor conditions, because nowadays women, including her parents, are very realistic and rarely really talk about feelings, right?
I am from Zhejiang and married a girl from Changde. As for the bride price, my parents-in-law never mentioned it at that time. I gave the woman a red envelope myself, which is also appropriate. How many wedding gifts do you want? I never thought about it. Both of them have arrived at the gate of the wedding, still struggling for the bride price. Later, I learned that Changde has a good atmosphere, that is, when you are recognized as the prospective son-in-law of your parents-in-law, you are a member of his family and you are all relatives. Still talking about interests? I admire the generosity of Changde people.
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I still have a say in this question, because I am from Changde and have worked in Qiandongnan Prefecture of Guizhou for some time.
The bride price here in Changde is not very high, usually tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands, and the city is low and the countryside is high.
The woman's family will generally ask the man's family to buy a commercial house, the full amount with good conditions and the mortgage with poor conditions.
A car is generally not a necessary condition for marriage.
Jewelry and wedding dresses of both men and women are generally handled by both men and women through consultation, and the man's family will give appropriate financial support.
After the bride's family receives the bride price, it is generally impossible to intercept it. They will add some money, or double it, and get married with their daughters.
He can be a cash deposit, a car, a house, etc. Or both. But the value is generally higher than the bride price. Of course, his wedding money and things are usually given to the young couple, and the man's parents generally don't want them.
According to the custom of Changde, the woman's family should marry some bedding and daily necessities such as cotton wool, but now this custom is gradually being diluted. Generally, before marriage, the man's house will be ready. The families of both sides can discuss it.
Generally speaking, regarding some marriage customs, Changde city will be simpler, while rural areas will be more complicated. All these require friendly communication between parents and parties in advance and try to accommodate each other.
I know that the bride price of Guizhou people is similar to Changde. There must be a dowry, but it depends on the family situation and is not necessarily higher than the bride price. The details of marriage customs are basically the same.
Guizhou people are hospitable and sincere!
But the people I know in Guizhou are more face-saving and more ostentatious than those in Changde. This is what you should pay attention to when you talk about marriage.
Changde has many national brands, which are not blown out.
Changde people are generally generous and tolerant, warm and friendly, and easy to get along with.
Daughters-in-law from other provinces will be more accommodating, loving and caring!
I wish you an early marriage!
I come from Changde. Whoever marries Changde's daughter will be rich. We don't talk about bride price here. As long as both parties agree, the bride price will be promoted at will. But when we marry a daughter here, it depends on the dowry. Generally, parents give their daughters a lot of dowry, at least 100 thousand, without asking the man to pay a penny. How much bride price did you come? I'll give it to you on your wedding day. Changde people are decent, just as parents pay as much for their children. Generally speaking, they will do their best. That's how I married my daughter.
Answer! I am from Shaoshan, Hunan, and the bride price for our daughter-in-law is generally130,000-40,000. Although we went to such a bride price, the woman lost all her money and she even had to accompany her dowry! He accompanied all the gifts for the bride!
I come from Changde. Nowadays, buying a house and a car is generally based on brains. Take me for example, I only want 20 thousand, and my family gave me 60 thousand to marry me. As long as I'm sure, why care about more money or less? As long as I work hard, everything will be fine.
I'm from Tianjin, Changde, and I didn't ask for a bride price when I got married.
My elder sister got married on New Year's Day and went to other provinces with a bride price of 1.8 million. Later, it was all returned, and the family gave it to100000. As for other clothes, these are not counted. My brother-in-law was scared at that time and said that he could return the bride price to them if he didn't see it. . . [Covering your face] can only show that this is our custom in Changde. .
I come from Changde. Changde bride price is very casual. Generally, the bride price is not discussed, and those who have passed the bride price are generally much more married than the bride price. Therefore, Changde people are not patriarchal, but the bride price of the woman's family is light.
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